2006-09-16 17:33:08 · 21 answers · asked by Serenity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she is not the ONE, why live the lie? In the long run, you would both be better off with the right one for each of you.
2006-09-16 17:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by 75160 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is not the one you must be a MAN and an ADULT and take responsibility and end the relationship honestly. Don't cheat. It's the cowards way out. You may hurt your wife in the short term by ending the marriage, but you will save her AND you AND the woman you desire a world of heartache in the long run by being honest and starting a new relationship off on an honest note by making a clean break first.
2006-09-16 18:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question to answer. I can understand a man getting married and finding out his wife is not who he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Everyone makes mistakes. May be he cheats because of circumstance at home with his wife. Sometime there is a reason he does not leave even though he is been with somone else..He mau be in love with the other woman but something is holding him back. It is up to him to be a man and decide what he wants to do. I do not beleive it is for anyone else to decuide or judge him for his actions.
2006-09-16 18:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 02:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man should be castrated not for marrying the wrong woman but for committing the sin of adultery instead of divorcing first in order to presue the woman he desires
2006-09-16 17:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man should have gotten a divorce before he started any other relationship. Now he's just a cheater and a liar.
2006-09-16 17:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have to give you credit for staying and giving it a shot. That is admirable. But you know in your heart what's best. If you don't you may regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck to you!
2006-09-16 17:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then the man should divorce the woman.
2006-09-16 17:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do your wife a favor and let her know what's been going on and how you feel. It won't hurt to be honest in this case because you don't even want to be with her. Have a heart to heart and ask for forgiveness! Don't go on lying to her.
Best wishes.
2006-09-16 22:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is guilt that he's making a mistake. It also his confusion about what will happen inf she lets the wife go and it was a mistake.
2006-09-16 17:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋