He invited me to go to his church with him tommarow, and I am really nervous about being really shy and not having anything to say, since that always happens. And I really like him too, so I want to make sure he gets the impression that I do. I'm soo nervous because I'm really shy around him. What is there to talk about?
Help?
2006-09-16 16:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I think the first thing to ask is if you're into going to church with him... he might take church seriously, he might not... he might be looking to convert you, you never know. So, most importantly, just try to be yourself when you're there... talk to him, be around him if he's talking to other people, introduce yourself to the people who ask who you are. Be open minded to the church and if you're uncomfortable about the church, then you'll have to just act interested. And hopefully you two can hang out after church (which happens a lot... people go to church, then go out to lunch afterwards), where you can talk and get to know each other better. Most importantly though, if you're shy around him, it's okay... he's not the last guy on earth. He probably wants you to open up to him... just be confident in who you are... that's what you need to talk about... who you are. He's inviting you into his life... you need to let him into yours a little. Also after church, invite him to something that YOU want him to go to where you'll be more confortable as well. And as for talking about stuff... church will give you some stuff to talk about, but there's always common interests, telling stories, and asking about other people (i.e. so who's he? or who's she?)... asking questions is always good. Hope this helps :-)
2006-09-16 17:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Paris P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, church can kinda dull a first date. what can you talk about, really?
you should invite him to a strip club, the conversation will flow easily!
just so you know, if you've already met him, your first impression has happened already. when you see him tomMArow, you will be building on impressions already there...and those are much easier to deal with.
2006-09-16 17:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.
2006-09-16 17:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by popsantos143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋