She is interasted in me and I am likewise interasted in her. And her husband seems like a jerk. There marraige seems one of conveniance due to a child between them.
2006-09-16 16:51:25 · 24 answers · asked by tallspot07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was that unhappily married woman, I had to leave for my happiness. Eventually he will know that she is cheating, she might put herself in danger. She is going to have to make a choice happiness or convenience. You need to leave her alone. Tell her that you could not bare anything happening to her and you have to let her go. If she is serious about you, she will be back as a single woman. But for now please leave her alone.
2006-09-16 16:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD YES!!! Whatever you do...just run in the opposite direction as fast as you can! Her marriage is troubled, which means that there are already some issues with this woman. And what the hell kind of woman will you be getting if she agrees to a secret relationship with you??? She'd be an unhappy, married CHEATER with a child at home. IF she'll cheat on her husband for you...then she'll cheat on YOU, too! Bet on it.
You can do a hell of a lot better.
2006-09-16 16:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by believer937 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, her husband may seem like a jerk because she is feeding you a line.
If she was truly unhappy and seeking love in all the wrong places, then she needs to "get her house in order" before becoming involved with someone else. A child is a stupid reason to stay married to someone.
Why do anyone want to be romantically involved with someone who sees nothing wrong in cheating on their spouse?
2006-09-16 16:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is tricky. I was unhappily married and another man purseud me and I got a divorce and married the new guy and we've been together for 10 years. But there were no kids involved.
But still, I've always followed my heart. I say go for it. But just be aware that she may not leave her husband and you may get your heart broken. But if it's true love it's worth taking that chance!
2006-09-16 16:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by lillith6662000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you purely grew to become over a rock - each and every of the snakes are going to slither out. No, you mustn't get slightly sumthin' sumthin' on the area. it is going to finally end up in a multitude, for confident. the two get out of the marriage, or settle for that it is going to be a good long whilst earlier you have intercourse with somebody different than your self. I do exactly not understand why you may want to introduce the worry and worry of a bootleg lover once you have 2 childrens to develop.
2016-12-15 09:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the husband? Or do you think the husband is a jerk because of what she told you? It all depends on what you are willing to deal with. Nothing now-a-days is "wrong" persay. People live in different lifestyles, suggest swinging or open relationship.
2006-09-16 16:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. Bottom line here -- she is married. She is vulnerable because she is going through bad times. And you want to pursue her romantically . . . why? To make her happy? Get real.
If you want to help her, be a real hero and suggest that she be good to herself . . . get professional counseling, assistance of whatever kind she needs (legal), and so on.
It is easy to make assumptions when looking in from the outside, but an affair will only make things uglier, cheapen her, and possibly cause custody problems if she gets divorced.
2006-09-16 16:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by joyann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all i can say about this is put your self in that man shoes if that was your wife would you want another man coming between you and her. if he is beating her or cheating on her she need to leave and then you and her can get together. how well do you know her or her husband do you know that he is a jerk or that what she tell you what ever you and her do be careful because he could find out about you and her and some one can get hurt.
2006-09-16 17:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It's wrong. It will only lead to bad things. Especially when there are children involved. If she's so unhappy, and he's such a jerk, she should leave. You do not deserve to be a way out. You should have more love for yourself.
2006-09-16 16:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes its wrong and you know it. Its none of your business, she is unavailable..what don't you get about that? Would you want some guy wondering if its ok to chase your wife around? Hec no and if he did you'd be spouting all that stupid man crap about beating the pee out of him blah blah blah...what comes around goes around. If you want better from the world you need to give better to the world. If she is unhappy she needs to get her poop in a group, grow up and do something about her life...boinking you won't help anything. If she is staying for a kid then she's a bad mother and a bad wife....what do you see in her anyway?
2006-09-16 16:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋