I Need Your Understanding.?

Question

As a teenage girl, I have very low self-esteem.
as I say almost everyday, "I Am Everything I Hate." I have the ugliest eyes, hair, teeth, skin, and I am overweight. I think of my self as a bad person, and always think people are talking about how hideous I am. I am almost up to the point where I want to throw up my food, am thinking suicidal thoughts, and cut my wrists.People think of me as the perfect girl, the "Oh i want to be her" label, which makes me feel even more misunderstood. On the outershell I seem to be a very happy girl, I don't want help, I just need to be understood.

Answer 1

The first thing that you must do, if you have not done so already, is to ask God to forgive you for your sins, and ask Jesus Christ to come into your heart, and save your soul. When you do this, you must realize, that you are righteous in the eyes of God. For when God looks at you, He does not see you; but He sees his Son, Jesus. And the next thing that you must do, is stop calling yourself a bad person, and start loving your ownself, as well as everyone else.. Stop looking at yourself as ugly in any way. For God sees you as a beautiful creation of his. But if you want to see yourself as beautiful, you must start having a positive attitude about yourself. Start making every attempt to look nice, and God will certainly help you to do so. If it is partly a matter of needing to lose weight, then start asking God to give you the wisdom of how that you should do such. Losing weight is not really that hard, once you start putting forth the effort to do so. But God can only help you, if you try to help yourself. Start telling yourself: I am a beautiful girl, I love myself, God loves me, and stop having the ideas that other people are always talking about you. But if they are, give them a reason to talk good about you. And if they are doing so unjustly, just remember that they will give account to God for doing so. And forget the thoughts of wanting to throw up, commit suicide, cut your wrists, or anything else of the sort. For the devil is the one who puts such thoughts into your head. I understand you alright. But the understanding that I am getting, is that you are allowing the devil to make a ruin of your life. You do not have to remain in this condition. God will certainly help you, if you will allow Him to do so, and start trying harder to help your own self.

Answer 2

OH SWEETHEART, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I WAS A MIDDLE CHILD AND IT SEEMED I GOT ALL THE CRAP WHILE MY SISTERS GOT THE BEAUTY. BUT LET ME TELL YOU, I GREW TO BE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO REALIZE HOW BEAUTIFUL I AM. MY SELF ESTEEM WAS SO LOW I COULDN'T EVEN LOOK AT MYSELF. THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO IS TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF, FROM THE INSIDE. I AM A GREAT PERSON, I HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER, I AM EVERYTHING GOOD INSIDE. I AM SURE THAT IF YOU SAW YOUR CHARACTERISTICS IN SOMEONE ELSE, YOU WOULD WANT TO HANG WITH THAT PERSON. THERE ARE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THIS WORLD WHO ARE HOLLOW INSIDE, SELFISH AND SELF-CENTERED. THEY ARE THE UGLIEST OF ALL. LOVE YOURSELF, I KNOW ITS HARD WHEN YOUR SELF ESTEEM IS DOWN, BUT I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH, EAT RIGHT, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. SET A GOAL AND A TIME YOU WANT TO REACH THAT GOAL. DO NOT GIVE IT UP!!!! EVERYTHING ON THE OUTSIDE CAN BE CHANGED. WORRY ABOUT WHATS ON THE INSIDE FIRST, BE STRONG AND STICK TO YOUR GOALS. DO WELL IN SCHOOL, AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, IN TIME, YOU WILL SEE RESULTS. GOD BE WITH YOU.

Answer 3

Let me guess, you wear black clothes, black nail polish, dye your hair black and listen to death metal. But, yeah. You are stupid. You think too much about how you look and now you're emo. Suck it up, go up to a mirror look at yourself in it and realize that you look good. See, you complain about all these problems that you have but then never do anything about them. If you have ugly teeth, brush them and get braces. If you have ugly skin, use lotion and acne cream. If you're overweight go on a diet. Just stop whining and take action. And by action, I don't mean cutting your wrists.

Answer 4

I truley can not say that I understand totally but to a degree. There are plenty of things that I see wrong with myself. I have also been suicidal and felt like nothing else matters. no one would notice if I was missing.
Please ... don't .... you are loved more than you know. i don't know if you know Jesus but He loves you and sees you right where you are at.And I don't know you but I care. If you need some one to talk too please email me. If I can get through it you can too. Let's talk, me and you, okay?

Answer 5

Pray

Answer 6

If you are everything you hate, Try striving to be everything you want to be!!. you are in my prayers tonight.

Answer 7

first thing dear is understanding yourself :)