my bestfriends boyfriend hates me and i think that he doesnt want her hanging around me because of little things like when ever i talk to her he comes over and pulls her away or he comes over and starts talkin to her when im in the middle of conversation or he satnds there and listens to everything we say and my friend said to me well now that my boyfriends moving we can hang out again and i sayed we cant hang out now and she laughed it off. and he hates me when the chorus had this banquet they both came and me her him and our other friends sat at a table he didnt say hi to me or my 2 friends but said hi to her friends and what cause he hate me he has to hate my friends and he sayd to her to stop dancin bc hes sittin there alone he hates me and shes startin not to talk to me anymore i asked he why shes like oh we still talk but she thinks hes the world we used to hang out so much like every weekend and after school but we never do anymore and i never had a problem with any of her bfs
2006-09-16 16:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by nodaybuttoday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Eventually she will probably break up with the guy, so wait patiently while trying to be a good friend.
What NOT to do: start putting down the boyfriend, this will lead to alienation.
2006-09-16 16:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's controlling her. By making her choose between her friend and him, he controls her. Of course she feels loyal to him because she wants him as a boyfriend, but she also feels loyalty to you. If he "hates" you as you say, you're not going to make him change his mind. He's already made it up.
Your friend will probably choose him over you. I'm sorry to say it. Unless she gets sick of him directing whom she can and can't speak with (I would but that's me) then it's going to be status-quo for awhile. Learn to accept that he doesn't accept you. Not everyone will like you in this world.
Find another friend, that's the best advice I can give you.
2006-09-16 16:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he think you are going to come between him and her. it seem like he is jealous of you he want all of her attention. you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. let her know that you will always be there for her no matter if he walk out of her life today.men come a dime a dozen but best friends can be for ever if yall let it
2006-09-16 16:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him in front of her what is his problem. You feel that he don't like you. If she gets upset, just let her know that you will be there for her.
2006-09-16 16:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT ALWAYS HAPPEN WITH EVERYBODY LIFE WHEN FRIENDSHIP GO FOR LONG TIME SOME PROBLEMS COME. NOW YOU DECIDE ACCORDING TO THE CIRCUMSTANCES. BETTER PUT THE END.
2006-09-16 19:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just blabbering on and on here!!! You need to spend your time practicing your English, sweetie. Find new friends........if they can stand your blabbering!
2006-09-16 16:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u become friend of mine
2006-09-16 16:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to that thats all i can say
hush
2006-09-16 16:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋