please help me!!i need help!?
please help me!me in great trouble!!?
I am 24 years old Indian girl. i had a bad life. i was unwanted child, my parents wanted to abort me but could not bcoz my mom could have died. My mom, dad sexually, physically and mentally abused me. I was raped at the age of 7. I was raped when i was 19 by my bf and his frd in a car. And now i fear i am pregnant as i had unprotected sex. My problem is that i met a guy a year back. He said he knows black magic, he is a tarot- card reader, he knows how to hypnotise. Infact he is a psychic. Bcoz once looking at my eyes he said what i thought about him. And once at night when i called him, he told me the colour of my night gown and how many pillows i had in my room. He was in his office and had no idea where i lived. I feel he is ruling my life , because whenever i tell him some secrets of my life , and about my love life, everything happens wrong. WhatWhat to do, me scared of him at the same time i love him.
i love him. he is very handsome, tall 6 feet, white skin, because his mom is white dad is indian, he has green eyes. he is like prince charming, i always dreamt of such a handsome guy right from my childhood, as my parents used to beat me and abuse me. i thought i'll get such a guy in my life who is handsome, but only problem is he doesnt propose to me and he does black magic. i feel i am pregnant, but i slept with another guy not with him. i did sleep with him, but it was like many months back(in may).
ya i am from india . i am not american indian
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i feel he is in black magic. because thrice he went in death bed, he has erectile dysfunction too. i want to leave him but i dont know how but i am always forced from inside to call him, as if he is suggesting me to call him. i am not having my periods, i feel like killing myself, because i cant get pregnant, as i am now in canada for international programme, i cant go to doctor for check up, because if i do, i'll be thrown out of the programme, and my career will end. after two months i have to go back to india, i cant go back to my parents, i have no relatives to help, to them i'll be a burden. finding job is not tough, but salary is very low. i can take loans, but all my neccesary documents are with my parents. i cant be a single mom in india because india doesnt accept single mom, my child wont get admission in school, nor i am financially stable to support child or bear social stigma. i am confused.
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i dont want to be mother. i am in canada, its a foreign country, i dont want to spoil image here by letting them know that i might be pregnant. cant go to the doctor too, i'll be thrown out, its the rule of the programme.
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i dont want to be mother. i'll die if i have to be pregnant.
2006-09-16 16:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by isha s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
wow I'm sorry but u need to seek professional help!!! someone will help u in Canada and/or a friend or someone close will help you...if not then u need to dump that weird guy and try to think about and your child instead of a career..u don't wanna abort this child so it feels like u did when u were a child..u have so many problems that some People on here wont help u with...u need to speak to a professional!
2006-09-16 16:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by cutie7191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must first believe in the power of your own will to overcome his curse. It is belief that drives us to control others in such a manner and it only works when both parties involved believe totally. If you know for a fact that you are pregnant then i suggest waiting it out until u return to india. if you wish to hear more from me i am a professional psychologist and am willing to help you im just really tired right now and need some rest.
2006-09-16 17:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Aristotle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pray to God. Jesus Christ is the savior of the world and He can save you. If you read the bible and believe that Jesus is Lord you will be saved by asking Him into your heart. He will forgive you of every sin that you have and will commit and will make your life whole. Don't fret about your friend. There is no such thing as black magic. Only you can make yourself do things. He can't control you. Pray for help and forgiveness. God loves you and can help you.
2006-09-16 16:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, You have many Questions. I will poke at a few. First of all if someone told you the color of your nightgown and how many pillows are in you room, I would not assume they are physic. I would be looking for hidden cameras.
If you think you might be pregnant but are not sure, find out. The uncertainty will eat you up.
2006-09-16 16:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by bill h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to find a place or someone who can help you with your present situation of being pregnant and I know that will be hard but you have placed yourself in a difficult situation. Once you find yourself out of that situation then you need to leave men alone for awhile and get yourself together. Stop allowing men to have control of your life, you take control of your own life. You need to find out what you want out of life and pursue your goals without interruption. Then maybe later on you will find someone who will love you unconditionally. In the meantime I wish you many blessings in your life.
2006-09-16 17:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love him, you are just being totally stupid, if you got raped and are pregnant you will simply end up raising the kid like everyone else does. its just stupid that you let yourself get into this situation, some boyfriend you picked, dont girls like you have the brains to stay away from men when you arent living in a safe situation? you got yourself into this, go find some old canadian man who will pay your way and get you an abortion so he can sleep with you.
2006-09-16 16:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to talk to a counsellor....thay can help you with the next stage in your life....they can help you figure out what to do
2006-09-16 16:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Marg N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is go to a church and speak to a pastor/priest. God will save you!
2006-09-16 16:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Angie*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋