My girlfriend and I have been seperated from each other by 4 months and 5000 miles and it has caused a lot of problems. We neither have dealt with being apart very well and I finally saved up enough money to fly to be with her. But she might not collect me from the airport. What do I do then, just wander around London with tears in my eyes and fly back home brokenhearted??? I have felt dead inside since she had to go back and I can't stand it any longer. So I booked the flight. She is angry with me because I booked it without her approval. I know it was wrong of me but I can't just sit back and let us grow further and further apart. Please, tell me what you would do? I'll arrive at around 7:30 a.m. at London Gatwick on the 28th of this month either way because I just have to try!
2006-09-16 15:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by synchronicity915 6 in Travel ➔ United Kingdom ➔ London
I think you did something really brave. It may work out and it may not, but at least you gave it a try and had the brass ones to DO something about it.
I almost did something similar and chickened out. I used to wonder if I hadn't wussed out, if things would have worked out for us. (*shrug*) I'll never know, but you will...and that makes it alot easier to sleep at night.
Best of luck!
2006-09-16 15:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ever thought that the reason she isn't happy about you coming over is because she is either in a relationship and had lied to you or worse still she is married?
I would cash in your ticket and have a vacation somewhere else. If you insist on coming over, if she don't arrive to pick you up call her if she don't answer then catch the rail link to the city. Enjoy your vacation and go home with memories of London.
2006-09-17 12:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, do what you feel is right. If thats what you have to do for closure--go for it. You will never know until you try one more time. If it wasnt ment to be, go on with your life, dont let someone else pull you down. You will always have the memories to go back on. But if it works, pat yourself on the back for a job well done, for trying... I do believe tho that if she's mad at you for planning the trip without her approval than she is up to something.
Good-Luck
2006-09-16 23:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that's the case it show that your girlfriend dun really love u so much.Prepare to start a new relation with another girl or save your air ticket money to go somewhere else to relax!
2006-09-16 23:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she didn't show up for me I would hire a Taxi and go to a hotel. I would then call her and see why she didn't pick me up. If she dosn't care then move on and find another person.
2006-09-16 22:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by cdn 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she's pissed that you're going there, then you've lost her already. Don't bother. Move on. If she felt for you as you feel for her, she would leap with joy that you are together again. Nope. She's done.
2006-09-16 23:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go if she got mad about you going to see her. She got mad because she's got "something" going on in London and doesn't want you to interrupt it. Go if you must but don't get your hopes up too much.
2006-09-16 22:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont go if she is mad first call her to set up a date where you can meet her and make it up to her
2006-09-17 02:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋