my gurl thinks shes preagnet ...but if she is how could she get rid of the baby wit out her parents knowing??? help please???
2006-09-16 15:16:26 · 8 answers · asked by ka... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
are you talking about abortion or adoption? her parent's will more than likely notice she is pregnant sooner or later if she has parents that pay attention to her you should talk to her about sitting down and talking to her parents they will be more mad if she hides it from them then if she is woman enough to sit down and talk to them like an adult if ya'll are adult enough to have sex ya'll should be adult enough to talk to the parents! Good luck
2006-09-16 15:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could tecnically get an abortion, some places will do this w/o informing parents, depending on where you live and how old she is. I personally wouldn't suggest that b/c emotionally it's a hard thing to do. If you just don't want a baby right now or can't handle it there is always adoption, her parents will know but putting the baby up for adoption will probably make her parents happier then her having an abortion that they could eventually find out about. Adoption is hard too but I think it may be better. Be sure you know she is pregnant 4 sure 1st b4 u try to make a choice.
2006-09-16 15:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out if she is pregnant by buying an EPT at the store. How old r u two? Killing a baby is a huge decision & I really think you need to talk to someone, an adult, friends parent, church person, maybe even her or your parents. Yes, it would be a sore topic at first but then they would calm down & figure out the best answer for all involved, including the safest way to handle everything.
2006-09-16 15:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by cameo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't spread the news to your friends. Gossip will kill your reputations.
If she is under age, she has to tell her parents in order to have an abortion.
If she is older, her and her doctor can decide the best way to deal with this.
You obviously don't want it - but unfortunately, It's not your choice.
And remember - it's going to be hard for her regardless of what decision is made.
Be there fore her and if you break up - remember - she could have f*&^ed you over, so respect her!
2006-09-16 15:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man enough to make a baby, be man enough to take responsibility.
There is no safe, good, or acceptable way to abort a fetus without medical professionals.
2006-09-16 15:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by koolkeiff2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby and put him/her up for adoption if you don't want the child. There are many people who want children.
2006-09-16 15:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by redwidow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell anyone either of you know. Gossip travels fast. But are both sure you want to kill another human being?
2006-09-16 15:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You selfish bastard!!1
2006-09-16 15:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋