and it sure doesnt feel good on my part.
what should I do?
2006-09-16 15:11:23 · 36 answers · asked by John J 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
shes a whore, dump her
2006-09-16 15:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
My hubby could tell ya he knows how ya feel! I did the same thing, my hubby thought I was his first! But he was my second! We were married for 5! Yeah he was pretty hurt! and I had wished I could have went back and told him when he asked! He lost some trust in me and I think that was the worst thing he's ever said to me and it hurt badly, but I did lie to him for a long time! It didnt ruin our marriage, it's now been 6 years! He does still bring it up occasionaly and will sometimes ask is there anything else I lied to him about! But just talk with her! Try not to let it ruin ur relationship. I hope things get better!
have a good night!
Ask her why she never told u before! My hubby did and I told him I didnt want him to be mad or leave me for it! But with lying to him that did more damage! We r gettin thru it! I am sure u can too!
2006-09-16 15:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it make you love her any less? Does she love you?
Some people may try to save themselves for marriage, which is good - but it is a rareity these days. Unless you both had a pact to remain virgins, and she did'nt hold up to her end of the deal - then you have a right to be upset.
However, with that being said if there wasn't a pact-you cant be really mad at her. You have to bear in mind that she loves you enough and has enough faith in the both of you to want to stand before your families and God and take the utmost important vow you can ever take. She loves you, you love her. Relationships are rough, take this as a lesson to learn and enjoy what you have.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 15:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl in Cali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, dump her!!! How can you sacrifice a virgin in your satanic rituals if you don't actually have a virgin??? You'll never gain eternal peace in the underworld if you show up with a used Honda Civic. Sir Evilness only drives the Lexus SC 430... brand spankin' new. He don't like no scuffs on the leather.
2006-09-16 15:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by swhlye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. After all if you are really going to marry her you must accept her for her. While every guy would like to think that they are the first to get it from their significant other that isn't reality.People meet hook up, get it on and break up. I would recommend some soul searching on your part to find out if this tidbit of information changes the way you see her or if it's something you can live with. Good luck with your decision and if you do get married congratulations.
2006-09-16 15:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by dork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u virgin?? well if u love ur fiance u should deal with that try to don't even think in that u will see is not that important... and the people do things... things that they might don't like and u don't have to judge her for something like that... make love to her before the wedding and u will be like her now!
good luck in everything! and just forget about it is not important mate!
have a good relationship! (the 99% of the people make love before they're wedding) i'm exaggerating maybe haha but something like that
2006-09-16 15:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mauricio P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she love you or not? You can not fault her for having a life before meeting you. The men she met before you were, in part, responsible for making her the mature woman you wanted to marry. Move on, it is the future that counts not the past. Talk to her about it. If you are not each others' best friends try to be.
2006-09-16 15:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pyramider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really afraid to be compared with anyone else aren't you?
If she was a virgin ... you would certainly be the best she ever had.
Something is going on for you to ask the same questions so many freaking times.
2006-09-16 15:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well atleast she didn't lie to you about it. Are you a virgin? If so and it bothers you go out and have sex so you will feel better. Not that you will but I don't know what too tell you. What we do before we meet someone is kinda private. Most don't tell the new boyfriend about it. So feel luck. She doesn't lie.
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2006-09-16 15:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you! At least she won't be tempted to stray later to find out how it is with someone else. Happened with my first ex.
And if you are still a virgin, you should get your rocks off before diving into something permanent...
2006-09-16 15:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just talk to her about it more and understand that not everybody chose to make the same decision to wait as you did. It certainly doesn't mean she's any less of a woman.
2006-09-16 15:12:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋