and it sure doesnt feel good on my part.
what should I do?
2006-09-16 15:11:09 · 24 answers · asked by John J 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
shes a whore, dump her
2006-09-16 15:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
Hey, it's not like it happened yesterday. It's ancient history. Whatever happened before the two of you met is part of what makes her the person she is now... and THAT'S the person that you supposedly love so much that you proposed.
Many years ago, I broke up with a guy because I was still a virgin and he wasn't. Later, I wound up marrying a non-virgin anyway. Odds are that you're going to marry a non-virgin if you're in the USA so get used to it.
2006-09-16 15:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
She could have fooled you, but she didn't-she was honest. If you really love her enough to put this behind you, then you might want to consider some premarital counseling to work through any issues that you might not even think about. Even though this was not good news, it does not have to be the end . We all have to forgive those we love throughout our lives, even though sometimes it is hard to. When this happened with her in the past, you were not in the picture. What matters now is what happens now that you are in the picture.
2006-09-16 15:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by itwog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you wouldnt care what she did in her past. You cant change the past. I'm sure she wishes that she would have done things differently, as do you. You cant hold something against her that happened in the past. The past is history and you should be focusing on your future together.
2006-09-16 15:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Care Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a normal person,don't worry about it,she might not be a virgin but your soulmate and the woman of your life
2006-09-16 15:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by diana s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone saves their virginity for marriage. Some wish they would have. However once it's gone it don't come back. Talk to her about how you feel.
2006-09-16 15:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that she told you. You don't state if your a virgin........ becareful that your pride dosnt end your relationship. Im sorry, but you should have been upfront with her about wanting of virgin before you committed to her as your betrothed........
2006-09-16 15:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shudnt u hav known this b4 u popped the question..
if tht was in the past, its not like shes only recently become a non-virgin
if it bugs u 2 much, talk 2 her
2006-09-16 15:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
so now that you know this you dont love her anymore?I dont think her virginty should matter unless she cheated on you with someone else and lost it.if not than talk about your feelings with her and then let it go.y are u just now finding out about this anyways?maybe ya should get to know each other better first before ya get married
2006-09-16 15:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! I believe that you should save it for marriage. Tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable and ask her how many times she's done it before, or if she feels bad that she didn't wait. If you feel strongly about it then you HAVE to tell her that you are upset!
2006-09-16 15:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
did you fiance lie to you before and tell you that she was a virgin? if so, then you really need to confront her and tell her how you feel.
the thing is, you can't take back her virginity so if you really love her, then you have to forgive her.
2006-09-16 15:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋