I didn't think I was homophobic but There's this gay guy at school and every time I'm around him I just want too shout "Go the hell away!" why?
2006-09-16 15:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by kairi fanboy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
answer 7 is bull crap....
2006-09-16 15:47:00 · update #1
Cause I act the same way around homosexual women
2006-09-16 15:53:58 · update #2
kairi fanboy,
I used to be that way. I think that the reason why I did it is because I felt threatened. Do you think that you might feel threatened? If so, then you have to get over that. Your respond is unjustified, unless he did something to you, or someone else that you thought was wrong, and were afraid that he might do it to you.
Otherwise I'm leaning towards phobia. I don't think that you need treatment, I just think that you need to understand it. That's why you are here, right? To understand it because you don't?
2006-09-16 18:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's annoying, then your annoyed with an annoying guy. If your getting any kind of vibe that's freakin' you out, then you're not totally straight. It doesn't necessarily mean that much, most straight people will inevitably run across a person of the same sex they are attracted to - that is my theory why there is so much homophobia - most of the population is some level of bisexual. It doesn't have to mean you are enough to actually have the desire to pursue and sustain a relationship, but it's there just the same. You'd be much better off accepting that it's something natural about yourself than thinking it's something some other guy is doing to you. Lol, that latter option just isn't possible.
Hope this helps.
PS - saw you're added comment. Sounds like you just aren't comfortable with people who are different than you. That doesn't make anyone less normal or healthy or wholesome being. It just means that you have a problem around people who are different, and instead of actually getting to know them to discover, whoa, not really that much different, you are afraid. So, deal with your fear of people who aren't like you.
2006-09-16 22:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He scares you doesn't he. You find his sexual nature threatening to your way of life. Lets examine that shall we. If you are secure in your manhood then his presence would not frighten you. that being said then you must be bisexual at least or have some homosexual tendencies for his presence to effect you so much. As a bisexual before I accepted that I was in fact bisexual, I can not tell you the number of times gay guys freaked me out because I was afraid they would be able to tell that I was bisexual. You need to just accept yourself as God made you and get to know the homosexual guy you know. he might be the one you need to help you get over your fear and live a normal life.
2006-09-16 22:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It also could be any number of things like a smell or a look--that you don't like but be reasonable. Get a grip. There are all kinds of people in this world that make this earth go round. We are all in this in together. School is a big place, you don't need to bumping into this guy unless your locker is right next to his. Tolerance is a virtue that wins many points with peers. Please be a decent human. And good luck.
2006-09-16 22:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe just cos he makes u feel like that could be just him. something about him .
2006-09-16 22:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried fried chicken? huh
2006-09-16 22:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it just be him you don't like?
2006-09-16 22:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him or maybe you really like him.
2006-09-16 22:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you are homophobic
2006-09-16 22:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by SUZANNA J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋