What's the female attitude, as regards to puns such as, "I got screwed", "bend over and take it", etc.?

Question

I've always thought only guys used these sexual puns when speaking about misfortunes. i.e.: "I went to pick up my car from the mechanic, and he charged me $500 for the repair...What else could I do but bend over and take it in the rear!"

Now lately I've been hearing this kind of talk from women as well.
Which is strange to me. Since women actually do get "screwed" and "bent over and taken in the rear."

The semantics of these phrases is based on the heterosexual/homophobic male's understanding that the screwer and screwee have vastly differing opinions of the experience--Essentially, the pleasure of the experience belongs entirely to the screwer, and the screwee, well, the screwee just gets screwed. Same goes for the person who gets bent over.

How do women feel when hearing/using this pun. Does it demean them? Does it counter their sexual perspective? How can you use these puns, while (assuming ur sexually active) enjoying the acts that the puns allude to?
It is paradox, no?

Answer 1

It may start out as a male saying but works its way into the language and just becomes a figure of speech, anyone can use it without thinking about it too much like you have.

Answer 2

i'm not very wise even as it contains religions yet lately yeah i have been noticing how Christianity is really pushy. i attempt to stay faraway from those attempting to spark up some huge debate on non secular issues because as i have stated, i dint recognize/care about what they are saying because i dint easily trust what they say. i'm easily conserving an eye fixed on particular issues which have exceeded off to me at the moment and that i come across myself putting this right down to three all controlling stress which some might want to call a god. i come across myself agreeing with extra of the Buddhist approaches of questioning which comprise karma. On more effective than one party i have been in a position to guage how nicely something will bypass after weighing up the ammount of undesirable issues that've exceeded off before it. I managed to get a acceptable interest interview interior the occupation i favor very last week, i had the most outstanding time with my female friend and under no circumstances something might want to've been better, i for my section trust i pushed my success too some distance and used up all my "karma factors", to pay for this i have ended up falling ill, having my vacation requests at artwork being denied and in a lot of circumstances having a nasty end to the week, it really is the most modern party of my dealings with karma, and there is not something i will do to attempt to make issues bypass better because i have had my truthful percentage, when I provide up feeling ill, i will get my sturdy "success" again and that i'd be high quality. I sometimes imagine that if non secular human beings stopped following the 1000's they'd come across a extra useful foundation of useful I easily have.

Answer 3

Well the male screwee can derive pleasure from being screwed!

Answer 4

yea any gender can use it now a days

Answer 5

why could't girls use them too?

Answer 6

girls use them too