.they fight alot
.my stepmom is mean
.she says bad things about me and to me
. why cant they just get a devorce
2006-09-16 14:51:22 · 18 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shes mean
my dad does make fun of her calling her fat and stuff like my aunt julie .......he says other stuff to
she calls me a slut to
i really want them to get a devorce shes taking over my life
help please!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 15:31:57 · update #1
shes mean
my dad does make fun of her calling her fat and stuff like my aunt julie .......he says other stuff to
she calls me a slut to
i really want them to get a devorce shes taking over my life
help please!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 15:32:02 · update #2
That depends on what she says about you and to you. If these things are disciplinary and intended to try to get you to improve, then take them for what they are and use what she's saying to make yourself a better person. However, if those things she's saying are unfair, insulting, and/or verbally abusive, you should inform your father and let him deal with it. If he dismisses you, start keeping a journal. Write down exactly what your stepmom says, and when she says it, including date and time. After a few weeks, make a copy of the journal and give your father the copy. "See?" you should say. "I told you she was mean to me."
2006-09-16 14:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought of living with an aunt maybe? Talk to your Dad and see if you can live with someone else in the family. Even if he says no then at least he will still know how miserable you are.
2006-09-16 21:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by summer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your dad married her and wants to be with her you have to respect that. My sep mom is mean too but i just was always nice to her and tried to stay as far away from her as possible. once you are out of the house it will get a lot easier.
2006-09-17 11:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make you Dad look incestous...that's sick just kidding. Without breaking the law just treat her badly, call her a whore and a slut. Maybe she'll leave. It might be wiser to honor your father's feelings and talk it over with him.
2006-09-16 21:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by gilligan346 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that this is a tough spot for you to be in, however, there is nothing you can do to split them up. They are adults and as adults they need to deal with their own issues. The only thing you can do is to tell them how you feel about their fighting and the things she says about you and to you.
2006-09-16 21:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
where is your mom? maybe you could go stay with her for a while. If that is not an option have you tried telling your dad how she treats you? I have no answer on how to make them divorce, just hang in there. good luck
2006-09-16 21:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First they decided to get married, so to split them up would be a sin. I agree with you that she should not say bad things about you and to you, however when married couples fight sometimes it is good for their marriage. Try and understand, acceptance would surely be appreciated
2006-09-16 22:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your dad know what the deal is. then if nothing happens, plant some evidence and make your wicked step mom look like she unfaithful. if you're old enough, come on to her. hell, get your buddies to come on to her too. make a game out of it. if she want's to make your life miserable, make hers a living hell.
2006-09-16 22:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age i say start finding an identity, find a life get bussy and forget about breaking them up, may be just may be a devoce might just make your life even worse.
2006-09-16 22:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you were the reason your parents broke up in the first place.
2006-09-16 22:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lora G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋