URGENT!! I Need To Know If...?

Question

I'M 15 MY GIRLFRIEND IS 15 TOO & I NEED TO KNOW IF MY GIRLFRIEND IS PREGNANT, I BROKE UP WITH HER TODAY AND WE HAD SEX TWICE LAST WEEK I USED A CONDOM, THE WEEK BEFORE THAT HER PERIOD FINISH ON FRIDAY, AND AFTER WE BROKE UP SHE CALL ME ABOUT FOUR HOURS LATER TELLING ME SHE FEELS SHE'S PREGNANT BECASUE EARLIER THIS MORNING SHE VOMITED WHEN SHE WOKE AND SHE SAID SHE HARDLY ATE TODAY, AND VOMITED, AND SHE TOOK A PREGNANCY TEST TWICE THE 1ST NEGATIVE, THE 2ND POSITIVE BEFORE SHE CALL ME TO TELL ME WHAT IS HAPPENING, RIGHT NOW I'M SO SCARED, SHE SAID SHE IS SCARED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, BUT SHE TOLD ME SHE GOING TO TRY AGAIN BECAUSE THOSE TEST DON'T ALWAYS BE TRUE SOME TIMES, AND DON'T WORRY EVERY THING IS GOING TO BE OK. I FEEL LIKE KILLING MY SELF... WILL SSOME ONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO?

Answer 1

wait till you know the truth

Answer 2

Since you used a condom, you are probably safe, but condoms can break from friction. In the future buy lubricated condoms. Also if you ejaculate, don't keep having sex, because sperm could leak out once the penis starts becoming limp. Girls always worry they are pregnant. I've taken many, many pregnancy test through my life. She could be vomiting because of some germ she picked up. I'm sure you have thrown up before, and you are not pregnant. Also, girls lie. So don't go killing yourself yet, or ever. Usually, women are most likely to get pregnant 14 days after their period, but this is not fool proof. The hormones that the pregnancy test check for usually take two weeks to be strong enough to detect. Even if she were pregnant, it doesn't mean the baby would have to be yours. If she had sex with you, then she may have had sex with other boys as well. Keep up the safe sex, and you should be fine.

Answer 3

Most women ovulate 12 to 14 days after the last day of their period, if you had sex within this time she could have gotten pregnant. But if you were wearing a condom, then it is very unlikely that she is pregnant. What is really interesting is that she called you four hours after you broke up to tell you this news. I'm sorry, but that sounds pretty manipulative to me. As far as pregnancy tests go. Most tests will not give you a false positive unless you have waited beyond an hour before reading it. I suggest you have her take another test, with you present (I mean not watching her pee, but within the immediate vicinity) Because this sounds a lot like a ploy to get you back. This is certainly not worth killing yourself over, but it is a good reminder as to why teenagers should not have sex. Good luck, and next time...Think before you have sex..15 is too young to take the risk..

Answer 4

It sounds like it's still too early for your girlfriend to be able to tell if she's pregnant or not. Perhaps she was just trying to scare you?? Who knows? It is, however, possible for her to be pregnant if you had unprotected sex at any point... so I suppose the only way to know for certain would be to wait it out and see if she is still feeling pregnant and having pregnancy tests popping up positive in another week or so. I do not mean to lecture you, as I'm sure you've learned an invaluable lesson being as scared as you are right now, but you are MUCH TOO YOUNG to be having sex (even with condoms!) and this just proves it. Are you ready to be a father? Because that is a HUGE possibility whenever you're having sex (even "safer" sex).

Best wishes.

Answer 5

You ovulate about 2 weeks after your period and that is the best time for you to get pregnant, although some can still get preg while on their period (if they have sex then). Everyone's body is different.The timing seems right, but, did the condom stay on you the entire time without slipping? If it did, maybe there is a chance she is not preg, just having going thru a breakup may be making her feel sick. I would not really trust the test until she is about a week late anyway. Going by your comment, she is not late yet, is she? If she is not, just stay calm right now. And remember this next time you want to have sex. Other than STD's, this is another reason to wait.

Answer 6

You are 15 and having sex before you are mature enough. She sounds immature, too. She is upset you broke up with her and using possible pregnancy to hold on to you maybe? Go over to her house and ask her to take another pregancy test. Give her the kit (you buy it at the drug store) and let her go into the bathroom. When she comes out, ask to see the stick. That's the only way to know. Are you ready to be a good father? Can you support a son or daughter? Do NOT have any more sex until you know how to use a condom and are ready to be a parent.

Answer 7

Relax it sounds impossible for her to be pregnant by what u have said. If she just finished her period and u had sex twice with a condom shes not pregnant. She couldn't possibly tell if she is pregnant. I think she is lying to you to make u feel bad , she is immature and playing the worst trick a girl can do. You are too young to have sex good for u for using a condom. Don't worry i think she full of beans. Why don't u ask her if u can see the positive preganct test result .Because i doubt there is one. Dont kill yoursel over this.

Answer 8

First off calm down, if you were old enough for sex you must have been old enough to know even with a condom pregnancy can occure. I think it's to soon to find out if she is pregnant or not, she needs to wait till her next period is late. As far as pregnancy tests goes you get more false negitives than positives. It's possible she is pregnant and feeling symtoms but those do not typically show up untill you are 4-6 week pregnant.

Answer 9

First of all SLOW DOWN. Don't worry so much you're going to give yourself a heart attack. I'm betting she's not pregnant because you ovulate 14 days before your period...And that's when you get pregnant! Don't talk about killing yourself that is nonsense. I found out I was pregnant at 15, and now i'm 16 and 29 weeks pregnant, and i'm with my 17 year old boyfriend, and we're engaged, and we are the happiest we have ever been. If she is take care of her, and be there for her, and if she can't have the baby then put it up for adoption :)

Answer 10

Wow, ya'll are young but that doesnt make a difference.
First of all you dont want to panic because that'll cause stress & depression & you might end up doing something stupid like leaving her. There "may" be a chance that she is. Your always suppose to take a odd amount of tests to se if its pos. or neg.
Tell her to wait like a week then take another "good" home pregnancy test. Maybe the reason the tests turned out different results cause it's too early to tell. Dont worry everything will be ok, even if she is pregnant, she can always go get the "morning after pill".

Answer 11

Please just take a deep breath. I know this seems overwhelming to you but she may not be pregnant. She may just be saying this to you because the two of you broke up. Tell Your Parents right now what is going on. You may think they won't understand but if they have any parenting skills at all they will help you get through this. Being only 15 makes you feel as though you know what the world is about but honeslty, you don't. Please get an adult involved, not only will you need them for some financial support but also for mental support. Please don't kill yourself. It's not worth getting into a frenzy over just yet. But PLEASE talk to your parents or another adult. And to avoid circumstances in the future try abstenance.