It's Relay 4 life Cool. I'am cleaning the house!! Again is it me?? Did it the last 3 weeks. Cleaning her runnining around crap too. Dishes. landrey everything!! I pull off 250,000 a year . What is wrong with that picture??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????//
2006-09-16 14:26:27 · 25 answers · asked by POKHER4FUN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
making all that money u should hire a maid and go have fun urself.. instead of being a push over..
2006-09-16 14:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with this picture is the lack of communication within your marriage.
If you feel that you're over worked while your wife is out having a great time, then you need to speak to her about how you're feeling, she'll never know unless you're upfront and honest.
Explain to her that you work hard at work to rake in the profits and cleaning for the last 3 weeks has been rough on you especially without any help from you while she is out. If she doesn't want to clean and continues to go out after you have your discussion, then don't clean. DO what YOU feel like doing and let her come home to a dirty house. Eventually she'll have to clean it. No one is forcing you to do so.
2006-09-16 21:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a house cleaner and tell her that you want to spend time together. Go to relay 4 life and root her on. Take her picture. She is doing things that are enriching her life. You will enjoy her more if you support that.
Take a dancing class together. Women love men who dance with them. It's like making out standing up. Tell her how hot she is since she started running. Kiss her on the back of the neck with no expectation of sex.
My best holiday gift was a house cleaner. My life is better every week because of it. No guilt.
2006-09-16 21:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u hire a housekeeper so you can both have some time. not everyone is cut out for housekeeping. and is that the real problem here or are you and she growing apart and thats where the real issue is. try and reconnect.
did u marry her to have a free housekeeper or be with her?
2006-09-16 21:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, hire a maid and quit bitching. She sounds like a great person. Just love her and do your own thing, don't ever be chained to your housework, especially if you have $$$. Life is about living.
2006-09-16 21:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by hgheartland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list and divide the chores among the two of you. If she doesn't do her half then don't worry about it, I would make sure her laundry didn't get done if she didin't hold up her end of the deal.
2006-09-16 21:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by clb_tucker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You compose and spell like that, and want us to believe you "pull off" 250,000. Yeah right.
2006-09-16 21:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a picture.
You should be going with her.
You both should be sharing the house work.
You need to leave the house work right NOW! & go be with her.
NOW! GET UP & GO.
2006-09-16 21:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to clean, I am sure you can scrape up the dough to pay someone to do it. Quit yer complainin' and fix the problem.
2006-09-16 21:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a fine american maid with big cans and tell the spouse to take a hike.
2006-09-16 21:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋