How do I ask her???

Question

hey, I am a 17yr old male, that has liked this girl in my class for almost 2yrs.
She just broke up with her boyfriend about 3 months ago. She and I talk A LOT during school and also on MSN. When we talk on MSN we stay up until about 1-2AM, and we also get into talking about personal stuff....we always start asking personal questions.----DOES SHE LIKE ME TOO???-----
I am also wondering what is the best way to ask her to be my girlfriend? Should i either do it: by a POEM-i found one that pretty much explains what we do together; on MSN-we seem to get a lot more personal while on MSN; or by PERSON- just walk up and say that I love her???
PLZ help me, this is my first time trying to get a girlfriend, and it is also my first time going through this.......PLZ only answer if u are going to be serious...
THANK-YOU ALOT

Answer 1

Don't do tooo much at first. Just ask her out and say it's a date. Don't use the word love.

She likes you too. Now you can spend time together and kiss. Just don't get too serious too soon.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

She likes you! Definetly. Otherwise she wouldn't stay up until 2am chatting with you on MSN.

Don't tell her that you love her just yet. it might freak her out. Just tell her, in person, that you really like her and ask her if she is ready to move on to a more exclusive relationship. Make sure that she understands that you really do mean exclusive. Misunderstandings here could be very painful for both of you. Give her time to think about it. Don't pressure her. Tell her you can wait a couple of days for an answer. But not weeks and weeks......

If she says yes that she is ready for an exclusive relationship, then tell her you found a poem that perfectly sums up how you feel about her and give her the poem with flowers. It's very romantic.

Answer 3

I wouldnt throw 'i love you' into the begining of a relationship... it loses a lot of meaning that way, and most girls dont take it seriously.

What i would do, because its better for everyone envolved, is to ask her out face to face. Just tell her she's the most important person in your life right now, the best friend you have, and it'd make sense for you two to be together. Ask her if she'd be willing to give it a shot.

Tell her he doesnt have to answer right away, so seh doesnt feel pressured.

Thats what I'd do, thats what I'd have liked when i was still dating. (which was only 3 years ago)

Answer 4

Dont use the word love yet unless she does and dont tell her that u've had a crush on her for two years. dont talk about her ex. go out with her someplace where its just you two, no other friends and ask her if she feels like shes ready to start dating again, tell her you know a great guy *wink wink*. the poem might good way to do it. read it to her towards the end of the date. sounds like she likes you but it could also be that she likes u as a friend. if she uses that word then just take it on the chin, play it kool and wait until u get home to be depressed.

Answer 5

go to her house after schoo and tell her " out of ll the fish in the sea will you go out with me"her heart will meat ad give her a ring a small one she will say yes and she has to lik eyou i mean really or tell her at school during luch make sure to go on ur knee it is so much better that way
oh i need help what do guys like when a girl flirts plez answer 1 of my questions!?

Answer 6

whatever you do donot ask her on msn it takes a lot more guts to ask her in person and she'll respect that and i think you should write a poem yourself rather than use someone else's b/c it will be more personable just go for it!! good luck!

Answer 7

Write a poem yourself. they're really easy when you have strong feelings. Also you could make her do a scavenger hunt, placing clues in random places. If you feel bold however, just have a serious talk with her. Being your perfectly honest self impresses many women.