I have a polish boybfriend who barely speaks english, and he has many tutors, but one of his tutors is a polish girl, and I can't help but be jelous, I hate...HATE my jelousy, but NE/ways, do u think I should worry???
2006-09-16 14:16:36 · 12 answers · asked by latin~ma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you know he really loves you, and if he's not the type of girl to go and hook up with another girl, then don't be worried. but you should probably let him know, so if he does think of it, then he will start feeling guilty about it and come out to you. but if he loves you, then don't worry.
2006-09-16 14:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can ruin a relationship faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous. Jealousy will often change to the non valiant abuse or valiant abuse.
Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.
Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them.
Being just a little jealous is cute but if you are excessive jealous get help it will be getting much worth later in life.
2006-09-16 21:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want your relationship to work, you have to let the jealousy go. You have to have faith and trust in him. If there is no trust, you have no relationship.
I am half Polish and I cannot speak it, but if I was somewhere where I couldn't speak the language, I would be so happy to have someone I could talk to, no matter if it were man or woman. I know I am a faithful person to whomever I am with. I have never cheated on anyone.
You have to have faith in your boyfriend. Has he ever given you any reason not to trust him?
I had a jealous boyfriend once, and it made me disrespect him in that he didn't trust me. He had some self confidence issues that I could not change.
2006-09-16 21:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, u should not worry, if he's ur boyfriend that means u are the one he likes..so ease up on the jealousy business and be confident in ur relationship. if u ever mention that to him..he might just get offended and the more that u might drive him away
2006-09-16 21:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Necessarily, just because they speak they speak the same languange does not mean they will have an affair. Have they given you any reason to be suspicious?
2006-09-16 21:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn polish,and teach him English or if you speak another language and there is always body language that is universal lol
2006-09-16 21:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no who would want some polish girl over you =)
2006-09-16 21:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by dolphinlover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she can tutor you in spelling!
2006-09-16 21:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the boy likes you, there's no need to worry.
2006-09-16 21:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the girlfriend. so you're luckier. he gets to kiss you than the tutor.
2006-09-16 21:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋