Tonight I went to my mom's friends' 25th anniversary. Most of the people there were over the hill, but there were a few people my age, including a guy. Let's call him Ed. Now I've known Ed for a long time, since I became a teen. I remember one day I went on a snowboarding trip with a group of friends, and he was there. While everyone was gone to the hills, he started talking to me, like you know, "what's up?" and smiling and I guess I responded rudely, like "nothing" and he just walked away. That was like 4 years ago almost. And everytime I saw him after that, he would ignore me, and I would ignore him. Today I saw him again, and he was with his two girl friends at the door. I had just gone for a jog by myself, and was red in the face. Hi I said, barely catching my breath to them, but only one of the girls said hi back. He looked at me without even saying anything back. He makes me so mad! I feel like crying. And I mean it also hurts cause I know I must send off bad vibes or something
2006-09-16 14:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cause whenever I go to a party I feel so uncomfortable. Nobody seems to want to talk to me; even if I start a conversation they continue it, but after a little while I run out of things to say, and they end up leaving my table, whatever. I also start to prespire when the dance music comes on, especially the slow dance songs cause I know no one will ask me out. I got so nervous today I asked my mom to leave early so I didn't have to face the humiliation of no one asking me to the dance floor. It sucks being in this body, in this life. I hate Ed!
2006-09-16 14:17:34 · update #1
You've answered your own question, and probably have to face the fact that you seem to have a need to fix this thing. So? Go fix it! You'll probably have to wound your own pride, but maybe if you're lucky he'll let you apologize. It's not like you've got to fall in love, but this seems to bother you, so go make it right. Oh and by the way I've done these things myself, I've got a big mouth(got to to fit both feet), and do get myself in trouble so I've gotten good at swallowing my pride and apologizing when I've done wrong. I'm not great at it, but improving.
2006-09-16 14:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do do try with him ther are alot of guys that love to be with you i do like girls like you dont want a girl with big ti,ts i love a plain jane girl more then the ones you cant trust at all your a person that will stand my your man all the way if they cant see that in you they louse out out on a good/good/goood/good THING i do like the wallflower girls more i get turn by them dont know why i do but i do
2006-09-16 14:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by no need to report me i did it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
odvisly if he hasnt said hi 2 u back 4 4 years he has some seirous problems for holding in grudges but maybe u can get threw to him threw his friends
2006-09-16 14:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by [T][A][V][I][A] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't dance and am a natural wallflower... If I'm not in the band, I just stand around watching the others have fun...
2006-09-16 14:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either forget about him, or strike up a real conversation with him.
Sounds like you're interested in him, and maybe a in a real conversation, that will show.. And he'll see you differently..
2006-09-16 14:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by ray of sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please feel better. i could give better advice, but i am sad myself. Just find something to be happy about, no matter how small it is. Don't worry about Ed or feeling uncomfortable at parties.
feel better.
2006-09-16 14:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you expect someone you were rude to, to like you.
2006-09-16 14:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋