ive been divorced for over a year ,but i have a very good realationship with my ex wife,but everytime i go there shell either be naked or shell get naked take a shower or somthing in front of me.shes in a realtionship with someone else but i dont know should i act on this because its starting to turn me on but i dont know what to do,is she setting me up cause she knows i just strting seeing someone
2006-09-16 13:45:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not act on it. Especially if both of you are now in new relationships.
It sounds like she's just enjoying the attention and wants to know that you are still turned on by her. It's not so much even that she wants to do anything as it is having the knowledge that she COULD.
Out of respect for your new relationship (and really for hers as well) if you don't plan on getting back together with her, you should probably ask her not to do it anymore, even if it does turn you on.
I'm sure some other people would tell you to go for it, but really, unless you're just looking for a quick f *** and nothing more, why take a chance on ruining your new relationship?
2006-09-16 13:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that neither one of you are over each other yet. If both of you are in a relationship with someone else, why are you still going over there? The only answer to that question should be 'picking up the children' If so, call her 5 minutes before you get to her house and tell her to have the kids ready, that way you won't have to spend much time with her. If there are no kids involved, then you shouldn't be spending time with her without your significant others present. You two once loved each other and there is a history with you but now that you are divorced and each has gotten into a new relationship, it's time to move on. Best of luck to you, hope everything works out for the best.
2006-09-16 13:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect it is a set-up. I don't think you should act on this since you are divorced for a reason and you are starting something new with someone. She may have the "if I can't have him, no-one can" attitude. She shouldn't be acting like this if she is in a relationship anyhow. Perhaps you should keep your relationship with your ex more public.
2006-09-16 13:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games with you and you have to wonder how her new man would like this situation if he knew about it. Maybe you should keep your business to yourself as far as if and when you're seeing someone else as well. Confront her and ask her what her intentions are when she behaves this way in front of you.
PS Your relationship with her will definitely put stress on any relationship you may have in the future.
2006-09-16 13:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are actually not perplexed. you're probable the single it quite is perplexed. once you look or check out a girl, determine you %. the ultimate ones to envision out. As in, if adult males are not gawk at a girl in a solid way, a minimum of that is at somebody who does not care. i don't think of that's a solid thought to make somebody sense completely violated and "grimy", in case you wanna call it that, in the event that they don't look or look like the guy who desires that form of interest. If that's a girl which you will possibly take heavily, a minimum of provide her your interest in a manner that doesn't say "hi, you're high quality, however the chick next to ain't so undesirable the two", i.e. respectfully! =)
2016-10-15 01:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by scharber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy
2006-09-16 13:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a "very good relationship with ex-wife," why are you divorced? Yeah-----she's probably behaving like that because she knows your seeing someone. Walk away. It wasn't meant to be or you two wouldn't be divorced.
2006-09-16 13:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from your ex-wife as much as possible. Sounds like she wants to keep you dangling by a string. Why dont you stay involved more with your new girl-friend.
2006-09-16 13:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesnt like the idea of you being with someone else even if you and her are over and if she could sleep with you again she would have power....its about being able to get you back in her bed ....
2006-09-16 13:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave......she is an ex for a reason. Not to mention how retarded that shes doing this and look where her priorities are. Do you really want to stoop that low?
2006-09-16 15:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋