Why do men lie after being caught red handed cheating?

Question

bf got caught cheating red handed keeps telling more lies, and twisting things to where he tries to make me believe I don't know what I saw.

Answer 1

Because they weren't cheating.

Stay with me on this, it's get convoluted.

A man has sexual needs that must be attended to. If he cannot find it in the current relationship, he is "free" to seek out another to tend to those needs.

Now, this does not mean he is cheating. He is just having his needs services, like a mechanic fixing a car or a plumber snaking a drain.

Therefore, he has not actually cheated.

(I told you it was convoluted and it is still a pile of crap answer, but as least you understand the thinking behind it)

Answer 2

Cheaters Caught Red Handed

Answer 3

Because pigs like that think women are stupid. I had a bf who was charging internet porn fees to a business bank account, I found a notebook with internet addresses, phone #'s, physical descriptions of women, kept my mouth shut till the phone bill came...what a surprise, he had called some of these women!
Of course, I was "imagining things", then he got mad because I was "snooping".
I left, as fast as I could. Changed my phone number, called a buddy at the police department to make an "unofficial" visit.
Unfortunately, men have learned this behavior "works" sometimes, some women buy into the story, feel that they are somehow to "blame" and give the guy another shot.
Run away! Run away!

Answer 4

Same reason that most women lie after being caught cheating. Let's face it... it's human nature to try to lie your way out of something like that. If you're cheating, chances are, you're a natural born liar. You know what you saw, so no amount of lying should convince you otherwise. Leave the bum, you can do better.

Answer 5

Because 95% of the time, they get away with it, a girl doesn't want to believe that he would cheat on her, she wants to believe that he is as committed to her as she is to him. There are guys who don't always acknowledge that love and sex have anything to do with the other. Some guys specialize in turning things around.
If he is a cheater, and you can't live with it now, be careful taking this relationship any further.

Answer 6

Because most women do not want to believe their man would cheat on them, even if they saw it. He is trying to convince you and make you doubt your own eyes. If he can get you to doubt, just a little, then he can worm his way back in. Believe your eyes and instinct.

Answer 7

I had a boyfriend like that. You know why now--he is a liar and a cheater and a coward. You already know the answer. Ignore him and let him know that you are not crazy and that you respect yourself more than to be with someone who tells you otherwise.

Answer 8

Same reason women lie. Mankind are sick and depraved by nature. That is what comes natural. You don't have to teach a child to lie or be selfish. You have to teach children how to be responsible.

Answer 9

Because the men themselves are too embarassed that they were caught to admit that it actually happened. Its a sort of psychological defence mechanism. He was caught, but he can't admit to himself that he was caught.

Answer 10

Haha...been there...like 3 months ago so its not too long ago. I say dump him and leave him for good. Don't go back...ever. They lie because they're afraid they wont have you..theyre afraid of you...and because theyre afraid they wont have some partner to satisfy theyre sexual desires with. Ik it sounds crazy and pathetic btu its so true.