We have known each other for almost 10 years, and have supported each other through marriage problems, kids, etc. Lately we have started to have big feelings together. I am undecided as to whether we should go public or keep things under wraps for the time being?
2006-09-16 13:33:11 · 17 answers · asked by JustineTime 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you're both single, why live a lie? Bring it out into the open and see if it developes into something. If you both feel that it's worth persuing, what are you going to wait for?
2006-09-16 13:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tread lightly, this could create a big mess if things don''t work out. I say keep it private until you feel secure in the relationship and then you will know when it is time to share the news because you will be so happy and excited that you won't be able to keep it in.
2006-09-16 20:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to depend on what you both want, if it an open relationship then you should go public, if you both are happy with the relationship as it is then keep it the way it is, dont rock the boat if it suits you both then stick with it. Best of Luck
2006-09-17 12:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by William T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume your both single or divorced, If so I don't see what the problem is to let it be known to others. Something you need to discuss with your partner.
2006-09-16 20:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is a case where the marrages can not be saved by not telling each others partners and trying to make the marriges work then, the couple who are helping each other must try and make themself happy if its the case where no children are involed. but in the end you must make sure you are happy in your selfs.
2006-09-16 21:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by mark m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep things under wraps until you are both sure about the situation.
P.S this decision takes two to make.
2006-09-16 22:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by grandad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your both sure thats what you want go for it you only live once and why shouldnt you both enjoy eachother instead of sneeking around but it is up to you to decide id say do it and dont waste anymore time
2006-09-17 11:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by bexieboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something from the Desperate Housewife's series.
I don't know. Are you both married? Then no. If you are not married, why not?
2006-09-16 20:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it at a steady space. Let things happen naturally.
2006-09-16 20:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Abelard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My uncle did the neighbor. Hes divorced and alone.
2006-09-16 20:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by lil bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋