last nite i went out with my girlfriends and as you can imadgine accidently intoxicated myself. ok I rang my ex 18 times, So Assuming of coarse he was sleeping with some hussy of coarse I sent a txt saying i need help. Then this morning when He rang at 7am after falling asleep early at home, Asking what happend? am i ok ?ect my answer was " Anna Sarah and I got rolled by 7 junkies and they took my wallet" Oh my god now the story is too detailed to go back on and i never lie so he beleives me...am i going to hell? my girls have me coverd, what should I do? Silly silly girl
2006-09-16 12:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by kathycracksit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whats done is done.you know now what you did was wrong & thats the lesson for you not to do it again. Just tell him you are sorry. don't make to many excuses except to say it was the alcohol. Because even at 7am you wouldnt be alcohol free it would still be in your system especially if you were drinking in the early morning hours.
You wont go to hell God knows you are sorry
2006-09-16 14:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not going to hell
if you think that the lie has gone too far then it would be a bad idea to tell him the truth
basically because he wont really forgive you and think that you've always lied to him
but if you think that at some point in time you may slip up and say something about this to make him suspicious then right now would be a good time to come clean
if your sure you can withstand the guilt and move forward then say NOTHING
just when he ask you about the ordeal
tell him you rather not talk about it
and ask him to understand
2006-09-16 12:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is come clean. Because lies tend to come back and bit you in the buns in a bad way! You have to explain you got "drunk" and was having a moment!!! You will feel better after the truth comes out! Also, if your a Christian, ask God to forgive you....HE is a forgiving...this I know! Tighten up on those commamandments girl! The only way to heaven is through JESUS CHRIST! You an't gett'en there by being good!
2006-09-16 12:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by fairyfae.angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to live a lie.Girlfriend...don't you EVER do this kind of thing again.You should relay think about coming clean...tell him the truth.If you try to live a lie..it will grow..like CANCER.It will eat you up.Clean house..start over..no-matter what he dose after you tell the truth,you will be able to hold your head up a lot higher.Let this be a #1 live lesson.God is not going to kill you..the lie is.Get rid of the shame..start on a new road...then God will send you blessing's.Trust me..I know what I'm talking about.
2006-09-16 13:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world did you get accidentally intoxicated? Did you trip and fall and alcohol fell down your throat? Why did you feel the need to lie to an ex? When you see him again apologize for calling him so much and tell him the truth.
2006-09-16 12:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kathy, No you are not going to HELL.You told a lie to someone that you still have feeling for,and you probably didn't think he would call you.It seems to me,he still has feeling for you to.You owe him the truth,and explain what you told us,(with out the sleeping with someone else). I bet he will forgive you,and promise him,that you will never lie to him again.Because,I think you 2 belong together.You do to,deep down inside of you.
Clowmy
2006-09-16 12:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great story. Start writing books you have a great imagination. Also don't worry about going to hell, they have no time for you, busy with Politicians and used car sales persons.
2006-09-16 12:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you know wat you may have lied but if honestly in your heart you didnt mean to do it and you are really sorry for doing it AND YOU ASKED GOD FOR FORGIVENESS THEN no I dont think you'll be held accountable for that. But you have to make sure you tell God you wont lie again or else you could go to hell! ask for forgivness girl!
2006-09-16 12:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by shena r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE what drinking got you into...a lie....a sin.
Call & tell him your sorry. Let him go...just be friends.
Ask God's forgivness for your lie. God 4-gives.
2006-09-16 12:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah write that one down to entertain Satan, and maybe he'll let you off...you were drunk! when you know you're going to hell is when you forget to feed your hamster on a 3 day weekend that you are away, feel guilty then.
2006-09-16 12:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋