2006-09-16 12:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by Katie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They probably dont like you either
2006-09-16 12:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean "you can't stand your husband's family". His family are his roots, where he came from and if he is lucky he will have friendships within his family.
If you can't stand them the best thing to do is to let him know how you feel and for you to stay away from them. Don't start any fights with them. They will still be his family even if you and he divorce.
Having a healthy relationship with some one is accepting them with all their baggage, be it family or a previous relationship with children. You can't cut some one off from their world or you will take the chance of loosing them.
2006-09-16 19:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be respectful but never loose your dignity and self-respect. Keep your distance and don't let his family interfere with your husband-wife relationship, and remember you are his primary family now, so your happiness it's the most important thing. And if it's definitely horrible; keep a real distance from them and never be hostile it makes things worst. The best thing is to keep away from them.
2006-09-16 19:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with them I don't bother with my husband's family all his family are is trouble makers and always tried splitting us up it didn't work though she called me names and lied to my husband about me as well as she lied about my husband to me to split us up she even told my husband our kids didn't look alike she called my parents saying she wanted my husband and I to get a divorce well when you get married you marry the one your with not the family and you forsake all others my husband got fed up with her crap and told her if she couldn't accept me it would be best for us all to stay away from each other well that was it since then no contact with each other and we are getting along great people can cause fight in marriages I stopped it no one is going to rip my marriage apart
2006-09-16 22:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they treat you like you are not good enough for their son then try to show them that you are. If thats not the problem then maybe some getting to know the properly time is in order - if you still have trouble then avoid them wherever possible - but do make an effort as your husband will appreciate it!
2006-09-16 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay away as much as possible. Your immediate family is the most important thing
2006-09-16 19:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by jdwest67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother with the damn *******. After all you married your husband not his family.
2006-09-16 19:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by muffin198486502 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Katie B!
When you get a really good answer to this question, you wanna let me know, I'm in the same situation!!
Thanks :)
2006-09-16 19:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by XxbrooklynnxX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SMILE & go on. You don't spend that much time w/them.
You didn't marry them.
He respects yours, you can do the same for him.
2006-09-16 19:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tolerate them . but be respectful for your husband.
2006-09-16 19:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋