I am an adult only child , got into some trouble with the law a few months back. Mom gets so worried about me when I am out of her sight. Is there anything I can tell her to ease her mind a little. I hate to worry her but cannot stay with her 24/7.
2006-09-16 12:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lova L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit walking the streets and selling drugs and your Mom probably will not worry so much.
2006-09-16 12:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. This is probably not the first time that your mother had to worry. It was the only the first time that you got caught by the law. You have to act like an adult and then your mother would not worry. It would help if you dropped in on occasion. And, I would advise you to share your life with your mother. And, last of all, mothers worry because they care.
2006-09-18 02:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue is trust. I would say for you to start rebuliding the trust relationship. I know it's hard. Specially if you are being 100% truthful. Remember trust is something that is earned.
For now, just bear a little with her and then you'll see how things will be better as her trust is regained. Be patient and keep hanging in there.
2006-09-16 19:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't get in to trouble anytime soon, The increased attention will subside soon. It's going to take a while, parents do worry even when their children are adults.
2006-09-16 19:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Katie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 19:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
E-mailing once or twice a week...calling to ask how she is doing once a week...those sort of checking up on her things will reassure her that you're responsible and caring and will reassure her that she doesn't need to check up on you if you have the time to sit down and e-mail or call her.
2006-09-16 19:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most every one has given you good advice . Since the law thing she is being more concerned which is understandable. and what the other people have told you.
2006-09-16 19:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juat convince her that you are gonna be ok and everythings gonna be fine just try to take her to a spa so she could relax and so could you
2006-09-16 19:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by mgfizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that they raised you right and you have to make your own decisions in life. Of course say I love and thanks for caring sooooo much.
2006-09-16 19:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋