I HAVE looked i have seen,i have spoken to many many guys that 90% feel the same way!on the otherhand i am a nice honest guy looks good respects people.but dont attrect these girls.DONT START WITH BLAMEING ME ON THIS COS ITS ABSELUTELY NOT ME!!!
2006-09-16 12:20:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In the intial stages of attraction, woman want their men to be manly. Cruel and nasty men look like strong and powerful macho men at the beginning, because in the beginning you can only see good. However once that initial blindness wears off, these relationships don't last long, because the woman wants a man who will look after her, love and respect her, she wants intimacy. But guys like you are the lucky ones (altho it might not seem like it now) because once you manage to get past that initial barrier, then your woman will be rapt by your charm, honesty, love and respect for her. She will trust you and you will have a deep and intimate relationship. So at the end of the day, you win!!
2006-09-16 12:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it might be pretty heavy, but a lot of women are attracted to the way their father was, as it is the example they grew up with as "what a parent / partner should be." That means that even if a person's father/mother was abusive and a bad person, they will be inexplicably attracted to that same model of a person when they grow up. There are beautiful women out there who are attracted to nice guys, they just might not stick out in your mind as much as those that end up with A holes who don't care about them.
2006-09-16 12:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by danimal3114u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a bad boy, and i don't believe its the 'bad boy' thing that attracts women, more the confidence and and slightly aggressive nature not [violent] but just knowing what you want....
And i believe this makes women the [fairer sex supposedly] feel safe and sucure.....
And women that go for the 'real bad-boy thing' perhaps tend to be less confident and sure about them selves, hence the potential for a faild string of relationships......
So just be selfconfident, say what you mean and don't be shy even around new people [Its about being a man].....
2006-09-16 15:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ste22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to take care of men. A lot of women think they can change the cruel, nasty guys. We want to fix them and make them better. It's our nurturing nature. It sucks, but that's the way it is...until we grow up and see that your type is the type we really need.
2006-09-16 12:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all girls have a "thing" somewhere inside them for bad boys. It's just part of us; that whole adventure and not knowing what's coming next kind of thing is intriguing and very sexy! But, we also know that we may love the bad boys, but we couldn't acutally marry them...they'd want to be out and about and none of them are really sit-down-at-home- have-kids, get a job kind of guys. They like the wild too much for that. And that's where the amazing group of guys like you come in. The awesome, adorable, respectful, marriage material guys. You guys are awesome. Thanks for being there for us girls.
2006-09-16 12:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because bad boys are a challenge. The element of danger and unpredicability is a big turn on.
Saying that, on the long run it gets boring and women will alwys end up with the nice guy because they learn from ther mistakes and learn that a good, reliable man who loves them is worth his weight in gold.
2006-09-16 12:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue nice guys get dumped on by nasty guys and girls want winners not losers. It the same reason we elect mean leaders, we want our leaders to be tougher than the other lots' leader.
2006-09-16 12:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well because they lyk the bad guy type lyk meh? but every guy ive been out with as either lied ,cheated or sumet so i duno u can get some that aint like that tho lol but yh gurls like a honest guy
2006-09-16 12:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it's not realy abaout if he/she is bad or not, is abaout the attraction for those things that not are "legal" or realy sure, it's abaout the feeling to do things that are not realy good, you know like the little childs
2006-09-16 12:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by siegfried_prhauss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm definetly not.
lots of girls who are into the nice honest guy type (lyk me)
are probably shy to ask u out or flirt or whatever.
2006-09-16 12:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋