Ok...well i asked this guy out on friday and he still hasnt given me an answer...do u think that if he was gonna say no that he would have said no rite when i asked him out or do u think he would wait and tell me on monday so he could think about it...........oh and i am thinking about giving him a letter on monday during seventh hour that says " never mind i dont wanna go out with a jerk like u" should i do that if he doesnt give me an answer by seventh hour??? PLZ HELP!!
2006-09-16 11:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by iLoVeDaRiNbOwMaN1994!(($ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
or u could give me something that i should say bcuz if he doesnt tell me his answer by the end of 6th hour then im gonna tell him never mind i dont wanna go out w/ a jerk like u...or whatever u ppl want me to say...nothing nasty plz
2006-09-16 12:10:30 · update #1
hes not a jerk im jus gonna call him one
2006-09-16 12:11:19 · update #2
ok well um...i dont really need u ppls help anymore bcuz he gave me his answer today after 7th hour was over and he said.................................YES! YAY!!! ok well ttyl byes.
2006-09-18 15:05:00 · update #3
Thats childish, the ladylike thing to do is when he does respond tell him you will get back to him cause your schedule is to full right now....
2006-09-16 11:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see. If seventh hour roles around and he hasn't answered you, just say, I've been waiting for your answer and since you haven't told me yet, I think it's no and that you are afraid to hurt my feelings. Are my feelings right about this?
Why stoop to his level of jerkiness, when you can be very nice and leave him feeling like even more of a jerk? :) If you give him a note calling him names and being mean, it will only leave him feeling justified with what he did and I don't think that's what you want.
2006-09-16 18:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for his answer and if he doesnt, just leave it at that....dont give him any letter, this will make u a worse person than he is. at least u are brave enough to ask him out and if he really likes to go out with u he could have said yes right away....he's probably making sure nothing better will come his way before he say yes....and yes..he's a jerk...believe it.
2006-09-16 18:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he decides not to go out with you, I don't think it's necessary to call him a jerk afterwards. It's kind of immature. But I think it's fine for him to think about it over the weekend. When Monday comes around, just ask him if he's thought about it yet (just in case he forgot). But if he still hesitates to give you a straight answer, he's probably not interested. But please don't insult the poor guy by calling him names. That would be un called for.
2006-09-16 18:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to go out, he would have said yes RIGHT AWAY. He is not saying "no", because guys are afraid to turn down girls. As far as your note your thinking of writing... do NOT !!! If you do that, you are showing you care ! Let him think you don't give a sh$* about him. Let him think that he does not affect you at ALL. When he sees you, have him see you smiling, happy, joking around... then YOU win. Don't let him think he is SO important .
2006-09-16 18:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could want to think about it. Just talk to him on Monday.
2006-09-16 18:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is going to say no but he doesn't know how to say it so he wanted to wait to ask some one how to say it first
2006-09-16 18:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by kay_kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a jerk, why do you want to go out with him...?
2006-09-16 18:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋