2 year relationship. 3 hour distance. There is hardly any communication between us with our busy schedules. He is a full-time student and I work full-time. We get to see each other about once a month.
I ended up getting very upset at him for no reason. And now he wants me to leave him alone. Should I? It's killing me knowing that it was my fault and I can't do anything to fix it.
2006-09-16 11:33:18 · 10 answers · asked by BMWLover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, do what he wants and leave him alone... if he really loves you he doesnt want to be apart from you..
be realistic and dont let your emotions be your supervisor!!!
your logic will solve this problem if you let it dominate you..
anyway, nothing is your fault, coz if there is distance between couples and there is no time to share, then the relationship is sentenced to break up.
nothing to do.... just sieze the day and enjoy yourself... :)) life is going on and His life can go on without you... dont bother yourself thinking about him... you have only one life!!!
2006-09-16 11:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by kardelen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you got upset with him for no reason. there must have been a reason but either you or him has convinced you that it was not a reason...the distance is one hard thing...the whatever you was upset about is another. If you think you had a reason to be upset hen you probably did. Maybe not so upset to the point of breaking up but y ou didn't say what you was upset about. My guess is you thought he was f*cking someone else. either way...if he says it's over then let it go...take your time on the next one and pick one closer
2006-09-16 18:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just leave him alone... if any party says that...they sure mean it because they are really harsh words to dish out without thinking, so believe and heed it, it will save u more heartache in the future. now for future relationship...u just dont end one because u are upset, try to make things work out by communicating. u hurt him, guys ego ..very fragile....LOL...u break em, u lose em.
2006-09-16 18:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, yes... But move on... He probably already has and besides, since there's hardly any communication, there's hardly any relationship... After all, it's all about communication anyway, right...?
2006-09-16 18:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want him to get a restraining order against you, I would follow his wishes and leave him alone if that's what he wants. You can't force someone to like you. Just move on to a guy that will love you and cherish you.
2006-09-16 18:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried because you care about him then do whatver you can to let him know that you still care. But if you're only worried cuz it was your fault then don't bother - you'll end up fixing something you'll probably break again for good.
2006-09-16 18:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 19:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes moved on better to take his advise and forget about him and move on yourself and try not to make that same mistake with your next relationship
2006-09-16 18:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by wiz of ia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no an ex is always an ex move on
2006-09-16 18:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your mistake and move on!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 18:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by kirby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋