We have been going out for about a month. And I alwayse get comments like, "I love you" and "You are the world to me." I am very hesitant to answer back to thease actions. I want to know if there is a good way to brake up with her? I rarely see her cause I am alwayse working or doing school work. (Just a note to keep in mind.)
2006-09-16 11:29:29 · 18 answers · asked by Jared J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Reason I want to brake up with her is i don't have any feelings for her... They just poofed.
2006-09-16 11:35:25 · update #1
The longer you wait, the harder it'll be...
Just make sure it's what you really want, cause you often wont get a second chance.
2006-09-16 11:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by MB_Bailey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how you feel and how she feels. I have to say that if someone says "I love you" very early in a relationship it never works out trust me i know. I have to say just go with your gut, do what you think is right cuz to tell you the truth the is no good way to break up with anyone exspecially a girl. So just do what you think you should do and it will be alright in the end she'll get over it and if she doesn't then she'll have to just deal with it you know. It will be fine and it doesn't always work if your doing other stuff and not able to spend time with her, so it might be the better thing to do.
2006-09-16 18:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyes_tell_no_lies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off all, it will be real easy if you actually spelled it "break" LOL. Just let her know you are not in a place for a relationship because of work and school. Be upfront and say it soon so that her "loving" comments don't make you any more uncomfortable and her feelings don't deepen more and she gets hurt.
2006-09-16 18:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what most guys do. Become distant and make her break up with you.
No, I'm not going to sit here and mince words and give responses like "Talk openly to her" and "Communication is the key" and blah blah blah. You know you're going to get those. You want an easy and guilt free way out? Become the guy she doesn't want to be with anymore. Simple. She leave you, no guilt, you are free.
Unless you want to be a man about it in which case, tell her up front.
2006-09-16 18:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to really love you, but if the feelings aren't the same that you share for her, well then, you need to break it off. But do it nicely. Like say "Things aren't going the way we planned. Maybe we should get to know each other better and take some time off and just be friends for a while". But if it's just your busy schedule, tell her you want to take some time off so you can get your schedule together.
2006-09-16 18:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shanteria I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. say this: " I dont want hurt your feelings but I never see you when I want to and its hard to make enought time for you because of school and work and Im also not ready to take that next step with you so I think we should just be friends"
2006-09-16 18:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sw3ettyyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave he rwondering , or hoping. Tell her the truth so she can get on with her life. She deserves better from you. So get in touch with her and tell her straight out what you feel your relationship is with her. She may take it like a man and beat the stew out of you. She most likely will understand. Getting it off of your chest will help both of you.
2006-09-16 18:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to starbucks or coffeebean and tell her that u want to brake up with her. HOWEVER dont tell her "that u felt sorry for her in first place that's why u asked her out" and dont do it over text, or im. then she'll think that ure a coward.
2006-09-16 18:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both have cell phones text message her and tell her we need to seriously talk. I broke up with my boyfriend by texting him. However I think I would have rather said it to his face to see his reaction. Just tell her you have no time anymore to spend with her. Tell her you are sorry but sometimes things are just meant to be but you two are not meant to be together.
Do not tell her it is me not you, Girls hate that phrase!
2006-09-16 18:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by April J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is no reason to break up with her just because you barely see her is that a problem with her if not then things should be okay
2006-09-16 18:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋