only give it up once a week, sometimes longer, and expect her man to keep giveing her massages, and foot rubs everyday? is the man wrong for giveing her the same treatment?
2006-09-16 11:23:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely not wrong!! I always say that a happy man in bed will do anything for his lady!! When I see girls with expensive cars and jewelry, I say to myself "Man, she must bee keeping her man happy in the sac!" so to the ladies that read this, if you want to have your man wrapped around your finger, then keep it hot in the bed!!! And this is not just my 2 cents here speaking, it is a universal FACT!!!
2006-09-16 11:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by cbg_mx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should NOT deny you, especially if you rub her feet and give massages. Sounds like she is a bit of a control freak and you two need to talk honestly about your relationship. It should be an equal thing and you need to find out what's going on and what needs to happen to fix this. Any chance she is getting it elsewhere?
2006-09-16 12:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complaining won't help your situation. You need to change the sexual dynamics between the two of you. You need to revive her energy and get things balanced out and humming. Work on her by being romantic. Surprise her with flowers. Take her out to eat for no reason. Give her a little gift that is fun (stuffed animal?). All couples get into a rut. Talking comes next, but warming up to the talk is what is important now.
2006-09-16 11:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the woman should give up sex more often in exchange, but she should reciprocate with massages and foot rubs too. Sex should be because you both want to be intimate not in exchange for other things.
2006-09-16 11:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by deepadot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that your both lacking in communication skills. If she's letting you know that she's likeing the feet rubbed and massages, then it's time you start expressing your own needs.
Talk Talk and Talk Rub on dude!!
2006-09-16 11:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only once a week? My husband would die if he only got it that often, not to mention I would too!! He is 63 and I am 40 but we still have sex at least once every single day!!! We spice it up and try something different quite often. It's always been equal give and take in our relationship.
2006-09-16 11:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try changing the massage thing to when youre both naked.
Use all of your body for a sensual massage.
Just a suggestion.
2006-09-16 11:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both would give each other massages and foot rubs they may have sex more often. all that stimulates the body. try different positions and be more intimate and romantic.
2006-09-16 11:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just your woman. She only does it because you let her get away with it. I have never deprived my man. After 22 years we are still going strong. Sex is something that you do with someone you love. It should not be used as a tool or something to manipulate with.
2006-09-16 11:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Eyed Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a true believe of you get what you give in this life. You are not wrong if that is the case. It is not fair for one to take and take and not give back in return.
2006-09-16 11:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by slanteyedkat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋