Her mom's is going to live from out of state to our state and force her to go with her but she does not wants to go and we don't know what to do we both are over age and we want to get married but here mom just want to take her away and now we both don't know what to do any help??? please!! : (
2006-09-16 11:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
No one can force their decisions against your wish upon you once you attained the age of maturity i.e. 18 years. You can file a civil suit in the court and get restraining orders against the offending parties.
2006-09-17 03:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are both over 18 is your girlfriend out of high school? Are you? Are there mitigating circumstances that would legally allow your girlfriends mother to make your girlfriends decisions? Do you two have the means to support yourselves? Getting married at a young age may seem very romantic, running away together also seems romantic... If you two are old enough to be married you need to know your plan know how you will support yourselves... Before you jump into a situation that can go bad fast you need to determine if the two of you are prepared... Love (especially young love) is blind... But it is also deaf, dumb and stupid... Don't alow anger and fear to force you into making very adult choices without knowing what the consequences are... The two of you need to sit down and have a calm adult conversation with her mother... show her you have a plan to support yourselves and are ready for commitment.. You never know you may be able to convince her to give the two of you a chance if you are able to handle yourself in the appropriate adult manner... On the other hand running away together and disappearing will reinforce to her mom that you are both only children running away from home in a tantrum... Communication is essential, talk and talk and talk until you can come up with a solution to the problem...
2016-03-27 04:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The law states you are free to do what you want to do after you come of the legal age, but you should try and talk to your girlfriend's mother about the problem and see if you can work something out to would help make everyone feel good about it. The mother can not stop you from getting married or force anyone to move to another state, so just try to work it out and do what you think is best for everyone. Good luck & best wishes to you in all you do in life.
2006-09-16 11:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by William L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the facts as presented, there is nothing your girlfriend's mom can legally do to force her to leave you. However, the fact that two young adults don't realized indicated to me that maybe you are not mature enough to get married or to be living together. If your girlfriend doesn't have the back bone to stand up to her mom now, imagine how much worse things will when you start making babies.
2006-09-16 12:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Carl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are both 18 or over do what you feel is best. If you decide to move in together and get married, her mother will just have to deal with it. You should however, both sit with her and talk about it maturely and honestly. Then make a decision.
2006-09-16 11:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by intelect1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but if you need advice for this, you are both too young to get married. Go to college, further your education. Get a good job and get married then.
2006-09-16 11:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIVED AT HOME TILL I GOT MARRIED
LET HER LIVE WITH HER MOM
THERES A LOT TO LEARN AT YOUR AGES
YOUR JUST MAKING UP MINDS FOR BOTH OF YOU
2006-09-16 11:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by domazina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋