I am no longer getting wet before sex, i will be totally turned on and want it but for some reason i just cannot get wet. about 2 weeks ago it started sometimes i could still get wet before hand but then during i wouldnt be anymore, what could be causing this? also it is much harder to get me turned on. i was thinking mabey because of the shot? i got the shot for the first time about 31/2 - 4 months ago... mabey this is the reasoning? what should i do any tips?
also my bboyfriend thinks its his fault, and i dont know what to say to him, or what to do about this whole thing, please give me some info, tips, advice..ect...
2006-09-16 11:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by sugar_kitty 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think you are talking about the shot, (the birth control shot) I hope so, if so, all birth control contains hormones, these can cause you to not get turned on or even get wet, explain this to your b/f and go to the Dr. before you get another shot, you may need to switch to a different type of birth control, I use Ortho TriCyclen Lo, I love it, light periods, no sexual side effects and no weight gain, the miracle pill, good luck!
2006-09-16 11:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the shot will do that to u and as far as the boyfriend if he loves u and u talk to him and tell him what is going on he will understand just sit him down and tell him OK and if it become to big of a problem get u some KY jelly and that will help with the (in and out) part not to be nasty or anything this will help with the pain of the wetness being gone have a good day
2006-09-16 18:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the change in hormone balance may have something to do with it but would talk to your OB/GYN to be sure. Until then, just use lubricant. Maybe even incourage toy play with your partner t help show him how much you are turned on. The big thing is just to continue talking with him and let him know you still care about him, just that with the shot things may have changed. First step, call your doc... then hit the store for some lubricant.
2006-09-16 20:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Corey R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you "got shot" means shot by a gun?
Anyway if that is what you mean, then it could be a mental block causing your problem. But in any case use lubricant and if you boy friend says anything explain that it's not his fault but the fault of mother nature and that you body is just changing. Remember our bodies change as we get older (and hopefully wiser) and not to worry.
2006-09-16 18:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need couselling for being shot, and for a while at least use substitute lubrication if it is available where you are. You are suffering from stress, get some couselling and unless your bf was who shot you, it isn't his fault.
2006-09-16 18:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try using ky jelly for the dryness problem... the warming ky works really good.
it could be your body is just going through some changes... if it starts to be a really big concern, speak to your gyno about it.
2006-09-16 18:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥JavaJunkie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using KY jelly
2006-09-16 18:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by amber_xx66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what shot did you get?
2006-09-16 18:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋