She says she "doesn't like me in that way", but I say, "she will learn to love me."
I always grab her forcefully, and glare into her eyes when I say this to her, so to better burn the words into her mind and subconscious.
Plus, it lets her know how strongly I believe in what I say. As if my will alone decides what is possible and not possible.
So how long, on average, does it take for a girl to learn to love a guy she doesn't "like in that way."
2 months? 6 months? 4 years?
2006-09-16 10:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Finar C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to say it, but she might be learing to be afraid of you. A friend can become a lover, but not with the tactics you are using.
2006-09-16 10:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, probably never! You just cant strongarm someone into loving you just because you want her to. Love is like life; there are no guarantees that the one you love will ever love you. The way youre going about will surely make her hate you even more. You cannot make someone do something they dont want to or believe in. What youre doing constitutes mental cruelty/abuse and grabbing her is really physical abuse. I have never ever heard of abuse being equated to love. So idiot, if you want her to love you, youd better start changing your ways big time and real soon, like right now before you end up in jail or something.
2006-09-16 17:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Youre kidding right? Have you ever heard the expression, 'you catch more flies with honey?' Women do not respond with that kind of gone with the wind drama. They ease into loving someone with kindness as in your case not with matter of fact thinking. Plus, it might help if you love her. Doesnt seem so. Sounds a bit svengali in nature. But, whatever, good luck.
2006-09-16 17:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. You cannot force yourself on a person to get them to love you or even like you. If you force her to have sex with you it is rape.
Just let her go. There will be other people in the world for you. She is sooooo not the one. WALK AWAY!
Be a real man. Real men don't have to beg.
2006-09-16 17:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will never love you. If its not there right away its never going to be there. Move on be her friend but you can not learn to love someone, and if she ever says she does she is lying its not a learned feeling.
2006-09-16 18:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Day500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, Dracula, you may as well give this system up. Any woman that would get-off on that kind of 'love' is a damn basket case.
2006-09-16 17:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can never force love
2006-09-16 18:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your approach is sooooo weird. you should see a family/relationship counsellor or better a psychiatrist! .
2006-09-16 18:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Peter_F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe an eternity?Sorry pal you have to move on!
2006-09-16 18:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋