2006-09-16 10:36:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry Nixy. Know it hurts. Like that REM song says " Everybody hurts sometimes "
You've gotta fill that empty space in your heart, fill it with your friends, fill it with your family, fill it with people who care and don't sit at home feeling lonely. Get out there and live your life.
one last piece of advice and this has worked for me many times.
If you're feeling low and sad and empty, think this thought.
HOW DARE THAT BASTARD MAKE ME FEEL THIS WAY ! WHY WOULD I WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT CAN MAKE ME FEEL THIS LOW !
2006-09-16 10:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mark G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont ever really forget him if he meant something to you, but there are things that will make it easier. It does take time.
I dont agree that you should get into a new relationship right away. Because then you never really learn how to be alone and you might not really pick a quality person that you're compatible with when you just jump back into another relationship in haste. Take some time and learn about you---Have an adventure. Do something you always wanted to do but always made excuses not to do it. Travel. Read new books. Go back to school. Eventually the pain wont hurt so bad. And you'll actually like being on your own. And eventually you'll find someone new!
2006-09-16 10:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Michele W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgetting is impossible. You need to address your feelings, deal with them and move on. The end of any relationship is always hard. What you must remember is that every past relationship is merely a stepping stone to next and every new relationship is a chance to do it better. Keep reminding yourself that this too shall pass. I'm not sure if you are old enough to drink but one thing my girl-friends and I always do when we are going through a break-up is to have Long Island (Ice Tea) parties. We buy loads of lovely food and flowers and then spend the evening laughing and getting dolled up for dancing later on! We all go through it babes, it will get easier, I promise. Take care.
2006-09-16 10:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too - i look at it like a piece of memory had fun gotta move on and new things in the making - i am going to go the gym more and read and find new hobbies and ways to meet others etc it is hard espically when lots of your mates are married or in a relationship that ends in marriage but when the time is right then person will come along and things will be good for now enjoy your freedom and relish the things you can do - have fun see your friends - party - and smile at least once a day that is what i am going to do
2006-09-16 10:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by ruddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this Q. I broke up w/ my bf (ex now) 4x. Think of all the negative things bout him. Things that really made you mad. Think of his habits & all the things that used to drive you crazy when he said/did something. My ex used to say stupid things sometimes. Sometimes he'd have road rage & get mad @ the other drivers...like he's da best driver in da world...:s The little things will add up to a lot if you think of them enough. Hope you can forget him & not go back to him...wanting him back !!! Once a couple has broken up, esp more than once, I believe that they were never really meant to be together anywayz. Since me & my ex broke up 4x, we're def not meant to be. We got to be so close that we could share our secrets & thoughts that we've never told ANYONE. Good luck !!!
2006-09-16 10:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of alchole and some great mates and a pub/club lol sorry to hear that youve broken up but that wil help you forget for a while and you might find someone even better
2006-09-16 10:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No dont rush into a new 'lationship it could hurt u more no one wans to be a reboundee... maybe surround urself with friends chat keep it simple make friends lol IM me lol... just dont rush into something unless you're completly and absolutly sure ok
2006-09-16 10:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by FoB_NoZ_hIs_S*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately you cant, but go out and have some fun dont take too much seriously for a while, and with all the fun you will be having you will eventually forget him x
2006-09-16 10:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on the pull!!! or failing that get together with ur friends and have a really nice girly night out or in, ur friends will be glad to spend sum more time with u, they probably missed u when u were attached....remember guys com and go but good friends last forever :-)
take care xxx
2006-09-16 10:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by belleoftheball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw out everything he gave you,dont talk about him,when your song comes on the radio turn it off and get your friends to cheer you up and maybe set you up with a hottie.
2006-09-16 10:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋