My case is that I been married to a military man for 2 years have gone thru two diployments already,had to leave my job cause of deployment and pregnancy.I have 2 kids of a previous relationship but I don't receive child support even tho i have a child support case open. I had a baby with my husband. and now I want the divorce cause my husband its really mean to my oldest son since day one also cause of deployments my feelins just fade away so anyways I let him know about it and now he wants to take the baby from me.
So can anyone tell me if he is going to be able to take my baby from me? and also since i only been married for 2 years and I kind of lost my job cause of him does the alimony applies to me? and I still looking for a job but have not found it and even if i do it will be hard cause of child care. so can anyone tell me what are my chances of me keeping custody of my baby?
Thanks
2006-09-16 10:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by shy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
got to add this to it I do not use drugs or abbuse my kids either.My only problem here is that I can not support them at this momment cause I do not have a job and do not receive child support for my other two and my husband might be getting out of the service next year.I know that his parents have money and they are going to help raise and take care of the baby. I am really scare cause since he is military that might influence the judge somehow.
2006-09-16 10:56:20 · update #1
Only child, drug and/or mental illnesses will keep you from getting your child and I see nothing about that above. He can say all he wants to about you not getting your kids but unless he has actual documented proof to the above 3 things, the law will prevail and the kids are yours. As for alimony, if he is bringing home the bacon, then yes probably til you get back on your feet. You will get child support for your kids. Now he willprobably get Californias state mandated visitation rights, but thats the law. Hope this helps and good luck
2006-09-16 10:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
95 percent of the time in the state of california from what ive heard is the mother always keeps the kids. especially those under five unless your a drug addict and cant provide for them.
2006-09-16 10:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by mekellygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sure can't raise no baby if he is on active duty. And he's mean to the oldest right? He's just trying to make you worry...
2006-09-16 10:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by lfaulk0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋