hes chrated twice. now is on his knees saying sorry. l beleiv him and love him. sad l know. my family say he will probally do it again in time. and are not happy. l think he means it this time. am l setting myself up do you think or do l forgrt the past and family upset?and give him a chance?
2006-09-16 10:32:34 · 25 answers · asked by annie belle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nope, you know ur gonna get hurt xx ur family only want wat is best for u xx listen to your thoughts, the answer is there, you know xxxxxxxxxxx
2006-09-16 10:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are setting yourself up for more and more hurt. If he's cheated on you two times he will do it another two times and so on. You really think that because he's on his knees begging your forgiveness that he's really sorry? Stop being a fool and wake up. When we love a person truly deep down inside it's hard to let go because our hearts don't want to even when were steaming mad, but you can't let your heart run your thoughts and your life. He's not sorry about this because if he was it would have never happened the 2nd time. Anyone can say their sorry, but that doesn't mean they are being truthful. Why would you believe he's sorry when he's a cheater? If you keep this man in your life you will go through this again, and again. Don't learn things the hard way because in the end your heart will be shattered.
2006-09-16 17:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you twice, sure there is a great chance that he will do it again, but at the same time, there is a chance he won't.In this kind of situatioin, i think you have to know the person personally to decide on an answer.Sit down and have a serious talk with him and let him understand that you are confused, but don't let him take advantage of you.I think you know the real decision.
2006-09-16 17:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dylan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, that is a decision only you can make! I know sometimes relationships get tough and its hard to deal with alone but the best thing to do in keep your family limited to the knowledge of your business. The only reason I feel this way is simply b/c when you are upset with him, your family is too b/c he is hurting you but when you and him make-up then they are still upset b/c they havent forgot about what happened before. If you love him, you probably will stay with him until you learn his ways unless he changes. Believe it or not, people change! Goodluck!
Liza
2006-09-16 17:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by leshay923 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him take a lie detector test. and here some advice sweety if he has cheated twice then how do you know if he might cheat again. So dont give him anymore chances my girlfriend cheated on my 3 times and i forgiven her but i shouldnt have taken her back.
2006-09-16 17:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you trying to find support here on that one? Listen to your family this time, they know best. That guy has found the way to control you, even when you're the one who has to say "I forgive you". If you do that, believe me, you'll always feel he's got the power over you. Don't go back to that place, it's too painful. You have to learn to let go.
2006-09-16 17:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No babe get rid when he cheated on you once that's bad but twice well just tells you and what about all the times you didn't know about.
Don't set yourself up for more heartache you don't deserve that but most importantly he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-16 18:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him a chance. There are plenty of blokes out there who will not cheat on you. Look forward to the thrill of the chase and get another one!
2006-09-16 17:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me and i was cheating on u twice the first i did it by a accident to second time i know what i was doing so i think u shouldnt give me a second chance u get my drift right
2006-09-16 17:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's already gotten away with it and he knows you're not going anywhere. It will happen as many times as you let it. Dump him. He risks bringing you, the person he is so in love with, a nasty STD every time he cheats. Dump him.
2006-09-16 17:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is treating you with contempt. Sorry is not good enough if it;'s happened twice. Of course he means it if you will fall for it again and again. Have some self-respect, say to yourself you are worth better and wave bye-bye to him.
2006-09-16 17:39:03 · answer #11 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋