The feeling is mutual we both love each other. What advice do you have? I am 40 she is 26.
2006-09-16 10:25:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If there are no children, what is your problem?
obviously one , or both you have children. So it looks like there is going to be some very hurt people . Love is Love , too late to turn back now. You two should of stopped the affair before it got to this point. Good Luck, True Love only comes around once. Make sure this is it before you ruin every ones life.
One more thing. I know everyone is going to tell you that marriage is sacred and you should not mess around. But I think everyone on this site is young and still believes in fairy tales. Sorry if I upset you all . But , in reality people cheat and fall in love. So quit giving all the lovers , and cheaters a hard time. Someday you'll be one of them.
2006-09-16 10:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start using the right head man. Right now your a novelty and tomorrow someone else will be so until she starts living honestly( with herself ) that she knows what it is for real that she needs, You should leave her alone and tell her that is what she needs, to figure herself out before she makes a long road of regret. Unless Her husband is physically abusive and mentally abusive, then be her FRIEND and help her to get out safely.
2006-09-16 10:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is too yough for you! SHe is married which means she love her husband otherwise she wouldn't have married him. She is just flattered because an older man likes her. So are you. you are flattered because a very young and attractive girl likes you. If you really love her don't let her leave her husband! She will later hate you and you will then just all be unhappy
2006-09-16 10:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ever get involved with a married woman? A married woman unless she is already in the process of being divorced, has absolutely nothing to offer you. Her only obligation is to her husband and her family (if she has one). In my opinion, you are setting yourself up for failure.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 10:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by bracygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to let this person decide what she wants and leave her alone until then. She is committing adultery! I hope there aren't any children involved cuz' they are the ones paying in the end. If there are kids, this person needs to stop spending time screwing around and more time being a mother and wife!
2006-09-16 10:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let her be.unless she was already fieling for a divorce when you met her. Because chances are she will not leave her husban and she has most likely done this before. there are some women who if they dont get what they want from their partner will look for it some where else but will stay with their partner
2006-09-16 10:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want to leave her husband? You say you love each other. If this is where you are at she should let her husband know and you can go from there. I hate to say it but either way, if you are together or apart she needs to let her husband know, it is not fair to him.
2006-09-16 10:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be unselfish and get over your mid-life crisis on your own in a healthy way that does NOT involve a very young married woman.
This is wrong, wrong, WRONG.
2006-09-16 10:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her all you want but leave it at that. Don't be the one she has an affair with, don't be the thing that she breaks her marriage vows for. Put yourself in her husbands place even...how would you appreciate that?
2006-09-16 10:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. I had the same thing happen when I was 38 and she was 20. I allowed it to happen, and when her husband found out, he wanted to kill me. He was a cop.
2006-09-16 10:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋