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Did you fall in love before you met face to face, and what was it like for you loving from afar?

How did you come to love someone from afar, and how long did you correspond before you finally met?

2006-09-16 10:23:57 · 28 answers · asked by Bender 6 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

28 answers

LOVE has conquered me from afar!

It didn't take long before we knew it's LOVE we have between us.. not the many miles in between.. nor the barriers that keep us apart.

We haven't met face to face.. but we are heart to heart.

2006-09-17 00:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 7 0

I live in Birmingham in the UK.My wife is from Russia.we have now been married for 5 years.We communicated by phone and letter from the September to the November,then i went to see her for the first time,We spent a wonderful week together before i had to return home.I was by this time hooked on her.It was then another 3 months before i went back to see her and during the time apart we wrote letters and chatted often on the phone.I then went over in February and i got down on one knee and proposed to her on Feb 14th outside of the world famous St Basils cathedral.It was snowing too-so romantic.I returned home and then returned in the June to get married and after the wedding my wife came here for a visit for several months and then i returned with her in the December until January.We were then parted for almost 9 months,but spoke almost daily and i wrote letters and poems to her.Now she lives here with me and although we have had the usual ups and downs we are still in love and have a wondeful baby son,so long distance relationships are just like any other relationship in that some work some dont but if you both try hard enough then there is every chance of success

2006-09-16 18:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mick H 3 · 2 0

No - but I did get married 6 weeks before travelling to the West indies & America for 3 months, absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say! Yes it was hard, and at the time all we could do was correspond by post - no e-mails or texting in them days! We could use rad-phone now and then, but when one of you isn't used to the static interference and 1 second delay with echo, it makes for a short conversation. But hey, that was 23 yrs ago and we're still together, so what the heck, hope that gives you an idea.

2006-09-16 17:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I'm in a long distance realtionship for about 8 months now. We live in different countries just water apart. So sometime next year we're hopin to spend a few days together. It's going great at the moment. We met thro the net too.

2006-09-17 06:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yes it happened to me. I have not yet met a beautiful Registered Nurse who lives 300K away from me. Although I have seen her pic. She is everything I want in life, perfect and beautiful. She is everything I have every dreamed of.

Loving her is such a feeling of anticipation of what we will do and be when we meet. She is perfect. Beautiful and smart.

We have known each other for probably a month or two or 3 or 4 I have no idea, time seems to have little relevance. Due to some personal issues we have not met yet. I feel no compulsion to force her to meet me. The sheer agony of the anticipation is so beautiful it is killing me. I do feel however, that I wish to honour her wishes and not force her to do something she doesn't want. I feel the best way to love her is to respect her. Any comments happily acccepted. Johnno

2006-09-16 17:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by johnno K 4 · 3 0

Long distance love affair. I believe with it. Because my husband and I started that way. he's from US and I'm from Asian country. We've first met on the internet and got married 2 weeks after we met face to face. And now we have a happy life together for 5 years.

2006-09-16 17:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

yes, i love the girl im dating from afar more than any girl ive ever dated face to face, its been almost a year now, thats breaking any old records, and my cousin and his wife met on the internet and stayed like that for 3 months (they didnt live THAT far away though so thats why it was so soon)

and ignore the first answer, shes acting like shes got sand in her vagina, they do work andhave in the past for people and fairly often result in marraige these days

2006-09-16 17:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 2 0

i met him on a wapsite he was 24 i was 30.. we just clicked me and him were 140 miles away from each other we talked every day either on wap sites swapped many pics and spent hours talking on the phone. i knew i loved him after a couple of months...and meeting up after 9 months of getting to know each other only made me love him more....i ad never met anyone like him funny ,kind and very caring..sadly distance means we were apart alot of the time and the loneliness of not having ur loved one close by took its toll on him i think as he would often say he`s lonely and question weather a long distance relationship was for him...but we always got past that but it didn't help that i was(am) insecure about myself and was bothered that he talked to younger pretty girls on line..even tho he said they were just mates...how could i really know that? and he never really reassured me i had nothing to worry about!.i was to jealous and couldn't get it out of my head he would meet and fall for someone better than me..resulting in a lot more arguments and my feelings getting hurt cause he stopped ringing as much never seemed to want to spend real time with me and one day he said i love you but am not in love with you... i know its hard to love someone when there not around. and keep the fire burning..but i never changed my feelings for him...he just wants friendship now..but am still hurting...i don't know if i could ever do a long distance relationship again..but if i did Ive learnt some valuable lessons from this one...TRUST is vital in any relationship but when its a long distance one trust becomes the one thing that has to come b4 anything else and deep down i wasnt sure i trusted him as ive always been let down be4,,maybe i created our demise with my insecurities and i wish i could of handled things differently,but whats done is done...and now its over......sigh

2006-09-16 18:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by seeclearlynow 2 · 2 0

I believe they work, I'm in one now. My boyfriend and I live 150 miles apart, its tough but we get by with weekend visits, holidays together and speaking on the phone every night, we've been together almost a year and love each other more than ever. We're planning setting up home together within the next 18 months.

2006-09-16 17:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by lizarddd 6 · 2 0

yes, we met through the net. fell in love with him ad his personality without realising . it was hard tho at first because all you think about is him and only him, everything reminds you of him.
we correspond for 1 year then when we met, heard that he had to go away and won't return again. :(
we still keep in touch

2006-09-17 04:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by fed up 1 · 0 0

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