Do you think that if someone's life has been very unhappy till now...it will be unhappy like that forever?? or will it become better with time??
Does an unhappy life now necessarily mean an unhappy life forever?
2006-09-16 10:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
of course not... Happiness is a choice that you make. Its all on the outlook that you take in life. If you want to be happy then you have to work at it. Life is tough and there is always going to be people that hurt you and things are not always going to go your way, but you have the power on how much all those things affect you. Make room in your life for people to make mistakes, hang out with people that are postivie, not ones that are always going to bring you down. And make an effort to enjoy your life.
2006-09-16 10:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is unhappy now, does not mean they will always be unhappy. It really depends on what is making them unhappy, a relationship? a job? or something else. If any of those things are causing unhappiness, something can probably be done about it.
2006-09-16 17:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by bracygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are younger, you have no control over things, you have to rely on family, but when you are able, to provide for yourself, then you are in control of your destiny, what I am trying to say is that, just because you had a sad childhood, does not mean that your whole life will be unhappy, because if you have a problem, then you need to go to a counselor, or a doctor, to get yourself checked out. You are in charge of your own happiness, so there for, you should know what makes you happy, and go for it.
2006-09-16 17:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i had an unhappy life a couple yrs back that lasted for a couple yrs but now my life is better.....i think it is just a test that life gives u....everyone needs to learn how to stand through hard times...it will make u a tougher and better person....just stick it out and im sure in the end..u will be stronger. only u can make your life better.
2006-09-16 19:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me classic retard or something, but I believe that happiness comes from inside. If you feel happy about everything around you, nothing will make you unhappy. Life revolves more on your mind rather than what happens around you.
2006-09-16 17:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, i think we control our own life and destony, and an unhappy life now does not in any way determin what your going to be (happy or not) in the future
2006-09-16 17:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by todd w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you work at it, it will get better. If YOU make a commitment to change your life for the better, it will be better. It is all up to you.
2006-09-16 17:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Life is what you make it. If you get away from negative people and work hard for what you want, anything is possible.
2006-09-16 17:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ... my life was **** before i met my bf now it has never been better ... try meeting new ppl or get a hobby
2006-09-16 17:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not if you try to change it.
2006-09-16 17:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋