okay so i met a guy today super nice and very hot, problem is my friend has liked him for a wile, but hes not interested in her and has never been, HE LIKES ME now shud i risk our friendhip and meet up with him next week or should i 4 get it and leave my friend to dream away ??
2006-09-16 10:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
discuss it with your friend first.
2006-09-16 10:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you think your friend likes this guy (be honest). If you ask her outwright, she'll probably say it's fine then ***** about you behind your back. You need to make a decision based on her feelings, not yours.
You may find she goes off him in a while! Give it time before jumping in there and making the wrong decision.
2006-09-16 10:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by bobsyouruncley2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me and I never went out with the boy because I didnt want to hurt her and we fell out a year later and we have never spoke 13 years later....I have always regretted saying no..if she is your real friend then she would just say go for it.
2006-09-16 11:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He LIKES you. Doesn't mean he wants to marry you or have a "meaningful" relationship with you. YOU have to ask yourself if whether your lust for this guy is worth the cost of a friendship. No one can figure that one out for you.
2006-09-16 10:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to your friend and see how she feels,If it's a good friend,don't throw away your friendship for a guy that may not last.
2006-09-16 10:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend, be honest, it is not worth losing a good friend over a guy
2006-09-16 10:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by pudding queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you should just tell your friend that he likes you and ask if it would be ok to go out with him, you cant just leave her dreaming. If she says no, she aint a good a mate as you thimk and go out with him anyway. gud luk hun x
2006-09-16 10:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bone him first. Then tell him if he tells anybody you'll say he was c rap. Then you have one up with your pal. No-one needs to know! Everybody is happy!!
2006-09-16 10:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by tkalnins2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm what a bad situation in fact i dont know but if i were u i would told my friend that he didn't like her as u should be honest with your friend
2006-09-16 10:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion boyfriends can come and go but friends are there forever
2006-09-16 11:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend, but remember she will hide how she really feels to make you feel better....
2006-09-16 10:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by fluffy bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋