What does he say??

Question

What do married men say to single women to make them think that having an affair with them is okay? When he leaves his wife and children for them does it feel good in some way? Can they ever trust them? Do they feel guilty about being a home wrecker? How do they justify it? Does anyone out there understand it??

Answer 1

I'm guessing, what married men say to single women are horrible things about their wife. they say these horrible stories to women, willing to believe anything, single women with issues of their own. most people like to be saviors or rescuers to others, and a married person playing a victim is alluring to some people. to the lonely or insecure lies are sometimes easier to believe than the truth. i can't believe that leaving any situation feels completely good especially when children are involved. i personally would not trust either one of the two, not the one cheating nor the one willing to participate with the affair for any reason. guilt is part of the allure it brings the excitement that is lacking within themselves it's a shared pleasured, part of the grand secret to both participating parties, guilt plays its part of the fantasize to control ones own feelings and feel in charge of their circumstance (the affair) and people around them. to justify the betrayal the cheater starts to believe his/her own lies. he/she begins to con oneself getting tangled in lies and moral conflicts.

Answer 2

There are a few of us with specialized training that understand alot of this but its really hard to explain and lengthy so Ill try to explain this in easy terms. Men are basically liars and always want what they cant have, so therefore men lie to obtain what they want. They even manage to lie to themselves that what they are doing is alright and wont hurt anything or anyone. Some will eventually feel guilty about what theyve done, but it doesnt do much good though. Men dont have to justify anything,they just do it as if theyre conquering something. Men always seem to have to be happy or they go else where to find it. Theyre just never satisfied with what they have. Advanced pyschology classes dwell deeper into this but for here,this will have to cover for now, but is basic cheating 101. Women should expect the unexpected from men because its going to happen and then men will lie about it once uncovered. Now as to every rule in life,there are always exceptions. Women must find those exceptions to live a happily ever after life. Also remember women do iniate affairs too, so this is a two way street. Hope this helps alittle

Answer 3

Sometimes its about the woman's level of commitment. She really does not want to commit so he is technically safe. And then ther eis always the "I'm better than someone else" smuggness that they must have. I knew a woman once who was the other woman, and the main thing she said to me was that she knew she was better than his wife because he kept comming back to her.

Answer 4

There is no justification. It is entirely up to the single woman to reciprocate his advances. If the single woman is aware that he is married, then it is her own conscious that she has to deal with. Basically, married people get involved with single people because it's less complicated and there is no commitment.

Answer 5

how about hot sex with no dragging responsiblity or commitment?
sometimes it suits both parties.