i have been dating him for 9 months now and he is just occupying his time with internet and soccer.i went on holiday for two months and just as i return he begins to act like that.
2006-09-16 10:11:05 · 17 answers · asked by pamela m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You ask :what does it mean ?
It means you should dump him pronto and look for greener pastures . He disrespects you big time .
Absence does NOT make the heart grow fonder . LOL
2006-09-16 10:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason he's acting like this is because you have been gone so long. 2 months on a holiday trip is a long time to be away from your boyfriend. He probably has someone else. I really hate to say that, but most of the time when the attention isn't there anymore and he's brushing you off it's because he's found someone else or he's just not close to you anymore. Long distance relationships are very hard, and it's extremely hard for someone to have a solid good relationship when the other person isn't around. Talk to him and ask him has his feelings changed towards you, and if he still wants to have the relationship you two have.
2006-09-16 10:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did u spend the 2 months? holiday with birds and bees?
60 days and no one came to kiss u??
what do u do 9 months when he is on the net? and soccer, cheering???
girlie u need counseling.
2006-09-16 10:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by kamesvari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is very commited to you and perhaps you should finish with him and look for someone who will appreciate and love you, it doesn't sadly, look as if he does, tell him that if he doesn't change then you don't think you have a future together, if he cares this should shake him up, if not then you will be better off without him.
2006-09-16 11:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by katiessupernan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coldstream26 answer is so funny and the best and most direct answer you are ever going to hear. Take note. Then give them the 10 points
2006-09-16 10:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you react if he went on holiday for two months think about it before you start pulling him down.and what was you doing for two months wine and dine and the bird and the bee's?
2006-09-16 11:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine he is acting that way because he is use to you being gone. Wait it out a bit but don't be surpised if the spark is gone.
2006-09-16 10:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While you were away he was obviously trying to kep himself busy but now he realises you are not as important to him so dump this loser and find someone decent.
2006-09-16 11:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....erm i dont think he realises how annoyed u r....if u really like him then i reckon u need to sit him down and talk to him and see where this relationship is going....but it doesnt sound like he's interested anymore....so maybe its better for both of u if u dump him...theres always sum1 out there waiting to attend to u!!good luck huni xx
2006-09-16 10:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by belleoftheball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are too good for him Pamela. Dump him and find someone who treats you right.
2006-09-16 10:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋