For me life only gets ******* harde, a week ago I didn't have a job, now I have a job that I hate, my boss is an asshole, and I do extra hours that I won't get pay for, I absolutly hate it. I am also soooo tired drained of energy. Everything else is also crap and I am still broke.
In answer to your question life doesn't get easier because we get older and realize that most of our dreams won't come truth.
2006-09-17 09:43:59
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answered by Insomnia 5
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Well, that depends on what an easy life really is, doesn't it?
If you mean life in general, there is a simple (and I do mean simple) way to approach life without going to extremes. Regardless of your belief systems or spiritual condition, I have found "The Four Agreements" to be the single-most resource for getting my shtuff together.
Once you realize that you can get out of the dream (or nightmare) you gain freedom.
I can tell you from experience: I was the most miserable person - inside and out - and this book changed my life. I went from alienating everyone I knew, losing everything I had (no understatement), wanting to die, getting locked up in jail after crashing my car while knee-deep in a bottle, to being more content and more happy than I have ever been or ever dreamed possible.
It's nothing crazy, and it's nothing outrageous. It's just simple. BUT IT TAKE SOME WORK ON YOUR PART. Easy doesn't mean spoon fed. Wallowing in self-pity, while painful, is easy because you don't have to do ANYTHING.
Take a step - go to the library and check out the book or buy a copy ($12 I think - less at a used book store)
Good luck on your journey and God bless (if you want it)
2006-09-16 10:14:59
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answered by The Rev. Johnny B 2
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When Does Life Get Any Fu**ing Easier...?
2006-09-17 06:13:36
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answered by ~Metalman Princess~ 1
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Life? When does it get easier? This is your expectation?
Life is pretty challenging - it has to be. That's pretty much a given, and you can't change it 'cos it involves things that are outside your control, (like the weather and freak accidents and undeserved redundancy,) and it also involves interaction, deliberate and accidental, with other people, whose personalities and motivations are not yours.
Life doesn't "get easier". Trick is to adjust you attitude towards it. Accept that you can't affect some stuff and that you can't change other people. Take responsibility for your own stuff and always do the things that will enable you to say "I did what I believed was right." Don't judge other people when they have different opinions, values or approaches from you, and stop comparing yourself, your life, your "luck", your posessions and achievements with those of others.
Be the best thing you can be and do more of the things you enjoy.
2006-09-17 02:09:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Hello!
I can not tell you when,but i can tell you this....
The most important thing is to never give up and lose hope. You might feel that life is hard and everything feels skit. But somewhere in side you is a spark of hope that can help and you are looking for something better otherwise your question would have been something like,does everyone hate their life? Keep on beliving and "searching" and one day life will be better then you ever dremt posible:) I am an optimist who has seen good changes happen
2006-09-16 11:42:35
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answered by Benita L 1
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The very moment you die.
However, life was never meant to be easy. Call it a struggle. A happy struggle for most, a most unhappy struggle for those few that have not figured the best way out of their current predicament. If you need to talk to people, do so. But never ever sit at home thinking, "When does life get any easier?"
Do something.
2006-09-16 10:00:19
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answered by Moorglademover 6
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Maybe your life is one full of challenges and not easy rides. Just think when you're 75 and sitting on the porch - you can look back and say I've had to overcome heaps in my life. Different to someone who has had it easy and has probably achieved very little.
Sometimes if life is easy it's boring. Keep going.
2006-09-16 11:13:11
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answered by Mercury 2
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Life will get easier when you change your attitude and make the DECISION to be happy and enjoy the blessings you've been given.
2006-09-16 09:59:15
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answered by missingora 7
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I dunno what your age is but life gets easier when you hit 30 and people give you more respect but on the other hand you loose your youth. Your job gets easier, your life becomes more manageable and you wish you knew what you know now back then. Hope i havnt confused you .
2006-09-16 10:07:47
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answered by chopps . 3
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'Life is like a sewer - what you get out of it depends on what you put in' Tom Lehrer
Cynical but implies its not a good idea to look for an easy life, choose a good one instead, that decision made
the rest IS easier!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 10:14:52
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answered by pete h 5
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