I had a heart condition that turned into Congestive heart failure in July, now my doctor says I need a pacemaker/defibulator....I am only 31 and have no children yet. My doctor told me that even though I will have a pacemaker i still have to take my heart medications and I cannot carry a baby, my husband wants to find a surrogate, where is the best place to find someone to help? And anyone know if Military medical would cover all costs for a surrogate mother?
2006-09-16 09:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would be a surrogate. I already have two beautiful daughters. Im 19, and I live in Kansas.
2006-09-16 10:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by AuroraBorealis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a surrogate she has her own medical coverage and that is what insurance pays for, everything else you have to pay for out of pocket and it can range from $22,000-$35,000. for the entire pregnancy. This is a very involved process, your egss need to be taken and your husbands sperm is taken and put together in a petri dish then put IVF is used to put the ebryo(s) inside the surrogate. You have to pay for her childcare if she needs it, materninty clothing. i believe there is usally a $250 a month allowance. Its $1500 extra if she has a c-section and $1500 for every add'l baby, if she ends up carrying more then one. Then at the end when she hands over the baby she gets a lump sum of $20,000-$35,000. There are many reputable companies. I suggest looking for one that is somewhat close to you so you don't have to travel so far. There is also a lot of legal stuff involved.
2006-09-16 16:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lyoness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wishing to become an egg donor or surrogate (working with or without an agency) for any wishful mommies out there!
A little bit about me:
My name is Kennedy Alexis
I am 5'4
i weigh 120 lbs.
I have an extremely impressive athletic background, as i swam for the Honduran international team from the age of 10 and Florida state team with olympians through out high school. Not only was swimming my passion but so was Track, Soccer, gymnastics, MMA, boxing, Golf…my list goes on.
I am Puerto rican, born in Bronx New york.
I speak English, Spanish fluently i can't say i am fluent in french but i am getting there.
I am a current EMT student seeking to become a paramedic technician.
I worked as a swim coach for about 2-3 years. Working with kids from the ages of 2+
I worked with the Swim america swimming foundation and taught children with special needs.
I was a life guard through out the same time..therefore i am CPR, AED certified.
I live in South Florida Engaged to my wonderful Girlfriend.
I think that becoming an egg donor is a reward with in itself.
I am Drug free and do not smoke.
If you think i can help you email me k.a.sanes895@gmail.com. I am open to any questions at anytime!
2014-06-20 18:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by kennedy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are web sites that help you find a surrogate...use your search engine to look for them and make sure you check more than one to find the information you need. As far as military medical...I have no idea...I'm an army wife but I have never run across anyone that has done this!! The might though, hell they pay for everything else else nowadays (even boob jobs). Check into it by calling the insurance.
2006-09-16 16:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by stall_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best bet is to talk o your doctor about this i dont think this is the place to be doing it
2006-09-16 16:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that
2006-09-16 16:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by gordon_benbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋