2006-09-16 09:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Find out what you like, what feels good for you. Try new things; bondage? toys? different positions? talking dirty (him to you or vice versa)? more romantic? candles? music? food?
Try thinking about how you feel, when he touches you, enters you, think how it feels.
There are many womens magazines and websites that can give you tips. Try out new things, be open to a lot you never know what you may like. Try kinky try romantic. Tie him up, get him to tie you up.
Holding your breath for about 10seconds can also help.
More foreplay maybe?
Let your partner by moans and groans to let him know what he's doing is pleasuring you, more chance he'll do it again.
If theres a problem with how long he lasts, theres a way men can stop themselfs ejaculating. Mention that with caution though!
Hope I've been of some help
check: www.ivillage.com theres many more but maybe a good start. Theres forums aswell, so there might be some good tips there.
2006-09-17 12:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a glass of wine, chill out, you have to relax and try not to think about it too much that can put too much pressure on both of you and it`s definately not gonna happen then.I recommend that you go on top and go for gold!
2006-09-18 02:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by B.B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to relax , get him to do to you what u like , dont try tohard for an orgasm or it wont happen ... chill
2006-09-17 07:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax and enjoy sex the more u want an orgasem the less likley u r to have one
2006-09-17 07:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre asking the wrong person there but keep trying im sure youll get there if all fails tell him what you want him to do
2006-09-17 11:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make yourself orgasm right? Then show him how to do it!
2006-09-17 06:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hsve a bowl of cornflakes and foregt about ever having sex ever again!!
2006-09-17 11:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try introducing sex toys......
2006-09-17 11:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, and work on the problem together.
2006-09-18 05:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by valiumgodmother 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋