I used to have a best friend that stab me in the back. She doesn't know that I know. I have not spoken with her for a couple of years already. Because I move out to a different house and I change my phone number, so therefore, she unable to contact me. If I do see her around, and what if she ask for my phone number, should I give it to her? I don't want her to interfere with my marriage anymore. What would be the best way to answer her.
2006-09-16 09:22:11 · 13 answers · asked by Cava 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she sees you, just try to be nice and tell her that you gonna change your phone number soon, so it's better if she give her phone number to you instead. Then of course, just throw it away. If she sees you again why you didn't call, just tell her that you lost her number. Can you have it again? If she wants your number, just tell her that you're not allow to talk to friends anymore because you talk too long and you always go over the minutes, so it's costing too much. So, that is why you have to change your cell phone provider before. She will ask for your home #, tell her you don't have home phone anymore because you already have cell phone. Tell her you will call her whenever you get a chance if there should be enough minutes left cause your plan doesn't have FREE nights and weekends. Sometime things are better off not to confront because if you do, there's no telling what she will do to you again. Just try to avoid her.
2006-09-18 19:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Siva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't something you cannot forgive, I wouldn't because you still harbor the grudge.
Since you never told her, she may not know. If you see her, suggest a lunch meeting and discuss it with her. If you don't get the results you need, then do not give her the number.
I would recommend that you do forgive whatever she did, you do not have to forget or ever have her over. If you don't forgive, you could harbor more anger and your body will tell the toll in the future. ie... high blood pressure, ulcers, etc.
I wish you well. If you do see her, then I believe it was meant to be that you meet with her to at least discuss whatever it was that bothered you.
2006-09-16 09:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she is not your bestfriend any more, I think that you still need to be honest and let her know that you know what she has done and that you are not happy with the way she stabed you in the back. She might apologize but do you think that she'd never do it again? You should sit down and think about wether you would really want to go threw that same situation again. if it were me I'd say no.
2006-09-16 09:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by tanya d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see her out and about and she is not your friend, don't even bring up the subject. If she asks for your number, just say it's a private listing and in return don't ask for her number.
2006-09-16 09:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have informed instructors no. they don't have legal rights to take your telephone. what's the worst they could do, call your mothers and fathers? that could want to easily look stupid, a instructor having a achieveable warfare with a pupil all because the pupil refuses to provide the instructor the cellular telephone. yet when the instructor asks on your telephone, ask to envision with the instructor after type or perhaps as there is not alot of interest. issues might want to improve with a crowd to the kind getting out of hand, disrupting attending to renowned.
2016-11-27 19:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to netzero and get a free phone number and she can only leave a message for you on it,check it out,or just tell her off and not give her anything.http://www.privatephone.com/
2006-09-16 09:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you had problems with your current phone hence you are about to change the number, therefore it is not worthy for you giving her your number at that moment.
[If she did bad things to you I don't think it is worthy to give her your number. ]
2006-09-16 09:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Peddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let bygones be bygones ... if you see her and she asks for your number, give it to her.
Then you can use the first call as a means to finding out the reason(s) she did what she did.
2006-09-16 09:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoukld just tell her the truth, when she asks you, you tell her that you know what she did b4 and there is no way i will give you my Phone #
2006-09-16 09:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by NYCGirl_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah..dont do it. if she's stabbed u in the back b4, nothing's stopping her from doind it again. its better to be safe than sorry.
2006-09-16 09:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋