How can i feel positive about looking young for my age.?

Question

I,m a very lucky and greatful person but get so annoyed with people sometimes. I met my husband at the age of 18 he was 30 we had our first and only son when i was 20 he 32, we have a very special relationship that improves with time. We married very happily in May of this year, Our son now aged 5 i,m 25 and my husband 37. We have our own businesses in which we built up together i work when my son is at school but get so so annoyed when customers start to talk to me about my personal life they are so surprised when i say me and my husband own this 'oh i thought you were 18 and live here with your mummy and daddy', i get very upset i have a wonderful life with my husband and son and a great business but cant talk about it with out getting rude answers and questions from people, my husband and i are in the process of building our own house and he would love for me to have another child i would like to but am so wrapped up in what people are going to say. If only i looked my age. HELP

Answer 1

If you continue to worry about what people say pretty soon you won't have to worry about looking young. It will show on your forehead and around your eyes. Trust me sweetie, if you husband looks his age, good. That means he's been a hard working man. If you look you younger than your age, good. You obviously have come from a good genetic pool. People probably think that you are a young gold digger. That is not your problem. Do you want to let go of your good man because of what someone says and let someone else have him? Hell no! So if you are not going to let him go because of what others have to say then to hell with other folks opinion. What? Are you going to start dressing like an older woman or something? Now if you are 25 and dressing like a teeny bopper then that's another story! You are an adult. You don't have to answer questions like you are a child. If someone asks a personal question YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER. As for having another child, go right ahead! Sperm doesn't age. He can make all the babies you are willing to have.

Answer 2

I can relate your experience to mine. I once dated a guy that is 17 years older than me. Then, my family and friends kept telling me that I had to find a younger one. Well, I'm really offended by what they said, so I stopped dating him for everybody's sake.
Right now, I regret it because we were very compatible and he was amazingly nice and considerate. It really makes me wonder if I could be happier today with him.
Anyway, ignore what your customers say. They don't know how much you love him and how happy you are with him and having a son is the most wonderful gift you have with him.
They might be jealous that you are happy with him, so they attempt to hurt you in anyway they can.
Your life has improved so much ever since you guys are together, so why do you need to care about what people say. You have a strong foundation with him and that's what makes you guys love each other forever.
Age does not matter. The only thing that matters is love. Love does not age...
Having another child is another blessing that God gives to you guys. So, never let people look down on you. After all, they are just customers who do not understand you...

Answer 3

Well, the first thing you need to do is figure out why you care so much what other people think. Does it really matter what they think? No.

As for looking young, I look young and I love it. It's genetic for me, the other's in my family do to. At 34, I get asked for ID when I buy lottery tickets (you have to be 18). I was even asked to a teen party the other day. When I was 20, I wanted to look older. Then I realized, I will be old soon enough, and to appreciate looking young now.

Answer 4

What's that saying? "Age is nothing but a number." It's true! The age difference between you and your husband shouldn't have an effect on you, unless it bothers you that much. When those kinds of 'rude questions' are aimmed at you, you can choose to answer them or not. It isn't mandatory for you to reply to them. As long as you and your husband's love is strong, it will withstand any obstacle thrown right in front of you.

REASSURE YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL, YOUNG WOMAN WITh her FUTURE SET. No one will get in the way of that, no matter how young or old you look. It's what counts on the inside :)

eh, I'm only an 15 year old. I don't know much lol.

Answer 5

First of all who are u living for? You and your family or the other people u talk about...Be grateful that they see you as a younger looking person..When u are in your 50's you'll see yourself as being really silly now...You'll be so happy then when u look younger then u are...It sounds like u have a great life and u are trying to make something more then it is...Be grateful that god gave u a younger face.When people say they thought u were younger u need to thank them and tell them your age and be proud u look so young. Alot of people would kill to look younger..Stop letting this bother u before u screw things up with your marriage..Good luck

Answer 6

Age is only a number,you live how you feel and it is nobody business how old you are and how old your husband is,you are both young and work hard,you are happy and that is all that counts you have a child and want another,go for it and have a happy family

Answer 7

It sounds as if you have a wonderful life. Why then are you so self-centered? Build your house. Have another child. Enjoy the life you have and quit complaining about something as insignificant as looking young. Most women would love you have that as a problem. Maybe they think you are 18 because of your immaturity.

Answer 8

don't worry if you look like your 18 but really 25 then in the future when your 55 you'll 48. looking younger than you really does have advantages 8-)

Answer 9

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Answer 10

hey be grateful that you wont look old wen you arent some people look old and arent when you are like 35 you will look 29ish and be the envy of women everwhere (i know a few women that refuse to say they are 30+) so if you dont look it then you wont have to say it. and tell thema ll to screw off cuz they are dumb and u arent (calling dumb people dumb makes me happy u should try it throwing rocks is a good one but its not very mature)