I have a friend that I really care for. We are both 12 year old girls in the 6th grade. I know around this age that we're starting to like guys and such, but I think she's taking it to far. We went and played a game of golf a few weeks back, and their were 20 year old men there. She started flirting with them. I'm getting scared because she's "maturing" and she looks like a beautiful 14 year old, but I think she's abusing that. My mom won't let me go to a football game with her because My friend said, "Don't worry, we'll hook you up with a cute guy." I'm mean I like guys, but I'm worried about doing that. How do I tell her she's a great friend, but she's scaring me. I'm worried that she'll met a molester and regeret what's she's done!
PS She doesn't act this wasy around her parents.
2006-09-16 08:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by ajmcleanrocksmysocks 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My avartar is an older male because I tried to make AJ McLean, my fav singer. (he rocksmysocks!)
2006-09-16 09:12:19 · update #1
OK again I have a male avartar because I tried to make him look like AJ McLean, my favorite singer! Could we get to the question!!!
2006-09-16 09:25:11 · update #2
ok you have to tell her to slow down she is 12 she is still a child she might think she is all grown up but one day she will met a guy who will take advantage. let her know that you are worrid about her but talk to her calmly dont make it in to an argument tell her she has the rest of her life to do this but at the moment se is still a child!!!!! what ever you do make sure you do your best to keep her safe. let her know how much she is scaring you you have to find a way of getting through to her otherwise he will find herself in big big trouble.
by the way she is so lucky to have a friend like you good luck and try and keep her safe but remember there is only so much you can do. good luck
2006-09-16 10:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a female twelve year old sixth grader why is your avatar of a older male?
Anyhoo - if this is for real - trust your instincts and don't follow what she does. Be an example FOR her not OF her.
2006-09-16 16:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by flirshous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but your friend sounds like a hoe. i'm thirteen but look older because i'm tall, but i don't take advantage of that. you need to meet her somewhere like favorite place and tell her that she could get seriously hurt. she could regret this for her the rest of her life. this is really dangerous for both of you. tell her about child molesters.
2006-09-16 16:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Be completely honest. If she sees that you're worried for her, she may start to think about what she's doing. Also, talk to a trusting adult if that doesn't work. They can help you.
2006-09-16 16:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a 12 year old girl, what are u doing on answers? especially posing as a guy... well I dont think theres much you can do... just talk to her about it.
2006-09-16 16:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to tell her about what you feel and she should stop if she doesnt then you tell her parents and she tells you why u told on her is because you care about her not because u wanted her to get in trouble
2006-09-16 16:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Alan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is lucky to have you as a friend
try telling her your fears
2006-09-16 16:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom
2006-09-16 20:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is going to get herself into trouble...people judge you by your friends..if you can't talk any sense into her, stay away from her.
2006-09-16 16:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by bjsuno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird avi
2006-09-18 12:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bananas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋