does sex make u more attached to the person ur with? or makes u love/like them more? sex in relationships can help the girl and the guy get closer to eachother?
2006-09-16 08:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It can enhance feelings that are there but won't create feelings that aren't there.
2006-09-16 09:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does sex make u more attached to the person ur with?
No
or makes u love/like them more?
No
sex in relationships can help the girl and the guy get closer to eachother?
They may be more physically close and touchy feeling after sex but overall sex is just a fun thing to do by yourself or someone else.
Don't EVER have sex with someone to improve your relationship, it wont work.
2006-09-16 16:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by marchain_ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't I just answer your question? go read what I wrote.
ok here's my answer from the other question:
sex is lust, not love, not reality, not promoting marriage or having children, it is merely an act. Like anything that humans do, it could very well be adictive, and more so if the other person is attractive, forward, trying new things, etc. Love and like are words that have little meaning unless marriage is intended. Sex in a relationship can help them get closer to each other but only sexually, and only for a short time, as in a huge percentage of the times it gets boring, or else why would people cheat on their spouses for a new change? Don't depend on it.
2006-09-16 16:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does, it makes them closer and after having a experience that touchy you will most likely be more comfortable and close to the person. However there is problems with this kids under age are doing it. they really should not till they are married and have a job and want a child. This does not show love or kindness just that you are ready for a baby.
2006-09-16 17:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex with a person gets me more attached, I just experienced that and I got hurt. I really felt love for him and he said he felt the same, but it turns out he lied about it. Sex in a relationship can be a good thing to get you closer, but it can also be a bad thing becaz if it really doesn't work out you pretty much get hurt. Good luck
2006-09-16 20:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by butterflygirl790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is handing you a LINE! He just wants to get into your panties! Next thing you know, he'll be telling you that if you don't have sex with him, he's going to have some horrible physical discomfort (like "blue balls") that only the act of penetration can alleviate.
In my experience, it's usually the other way round. First you like someone, then you fall in love with each other and THEN think about having a sex as one expression of your mutual feelings. There are a lot of other factors such as respect, trust and honesty.
2006-09-16 16:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - sex does not help the couple get closer to each other - except in bed - sex clouds the mind and the body to problems that should be faced before going to bed!@
2006-09-16 16:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in sex after marriage, therefore sexual relationship doesn't come into the picture before my marriage.
i believe my love would be nothing less or more than those who are engaged with sex before marriage!
2006-09-17 01:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't.
2006-09-16 16:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by fancydancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋