does sex make u more attached to the person ur with? or makes u love/like them more? sex in relationships can help the girl and the guy get closer to eachother?
2006-09-16 08:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by hamster2482 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No.
Sexual relations can be the icing on the cake or they can be a complete disappointment. People may be totally compatible in terms of personality but sexually totally different.
So, when it comes to your question, it may cement a relationship or it may destroy it. Usually though, getting on in day to day life is a more important thing. You can live together without an active or sucessful sexual relationship, and many people do, but staying with someone on the basis of sex alone is much less likely to be lasting.
2006-09-16 08:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tammi J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is lust, not love, not reality, not promoting marriage or having children, it is merely an act. Like anything that humans do, it could very well be adictive, and more so if the other person is attractive, forward, trying new things, etc. Love and like are words that have little meaning unless marriage is intended. Sex in a relationship can help them get closer to each other but only sexually, and only for a short time, as in a huge percentage of the times it gets boring, or else why would people cheat on their spouses for a new change? Don't depend on it.
2006-09-16 16:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not! Depending on the relationship that you are in. If you are in a committed relationship there should be no questions about how you feel about that person. Sex will not bring you closer to anyone or make you love them more or be more attached. If you all you are doing is having sex in a relationship then it's not a real relationship anyway. In real relationships peope make love.
2006-09-17 00:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In certain cases, males can "switch off" their emotions and not get attached in any way. I think this is from the days when a male had to procreate and therefore mate with as many females as necessary to produce offspring. They are capable of separating love and lust and don't necessarily need to feel particularly close to a woman.
Females generally are more likely to want some attachment before they have sex with a man. I think this is probably because they want to feel secure. They like the idea of love and attachment to a guy before they will actually give themselves to a guy.
Of course, having sex does mean you are actually attached at some time during the event ... if you get my drift ;-)
2006-09-16 16:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!
Often times, it will often do the opposite..Emotions and feelings get intertwined and then he might leave you and he leaves with a part of you..this brings about so many different malfunctions in the future if you decide to marry. Sex does not make you love him more..trust me..it makes you "feel" him more, which you may soon find out is not enough for personal satisfaction.
How about practicing "mind sex" and then if he holds up to that and impresses you..(intellectually, spirituallty, and even emotionally)..you guys might get married one day and enjoy all the sex you want!! It'll be so enjoyable..You won't have temporary satisfaction, but a lasting one.
I hope you fight the temptation.
2006-09-16 18:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Roda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a healthy adult relationship, yes. Because of various social moores about sex, it can drive people farther apart because of feelings of guilt or exploitation.
2006-09-16 15:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the sex. If it sux the relationship will not last. If its good hell yeah you will look better cause they will be wanting more of the good stuff
2006-09-16 15:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can enhance feelings that are already there but will not create feelings that aren't there.
2006-09-16 15:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 15:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by choco taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋