if you and your husband split up for a while just to find out if it was ment to be yall got back together after 2 months and you found out he messed with someone else and got her pregnant what would you do?
2006-09-16 08:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by mrsp27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay postive, if this is the man you want to spend your life with. All humans make mistakes and a child is not one. You can use this experiance to make the love that you have stronger. Be able to talk and feel, there are alot of emotions that you all will have.
2006-09-16 09:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by joypandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really a whole lot you can do since you 2 were split when it happened but at this point I would evaluate whether you believe you were meant to be together and if you think you are then stick with it and help raise the new baby on the way! If not and it bothers you then split again and get a divorce!
2006-09-16 15:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by stall_out 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to decide based on the reasons you split to begin with. When a person is lonely they may do things that if you had stayed together to work out may not have happened.
I think separations to solve problems are foolish.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-16 16:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is he was still married to you. If he is willing to work things out and validate your feelings, then he is worth it. People mess up all the time. What separates the winners from the losers is when people admit that they were wrong.
2006-09-16 15:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would want to be his wife. In the 2 months you guys were away from eachother he should be missing you, not going around with other woman. Was he on your mind in that 2 months period?
2006-09-16 15:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't that tell you that it was not meant to be? He sounds like a real jerk, if he REALLY loved you he wouldhave waited for you, move on I'm sure their are better men out there for you...don't get caought up in that mess you'll regret it.
2006-09-16 15:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by dlmvm0612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. That is a huge amount of resentment you would have to deal with if you stayed together. Good Luck.
2006-09-16 15:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Waiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would depend on how you two felt about each other. While you were apart, you were free to do what you wanted...if a pregnancy resulted, then deal with it...if you love him, stick by him.
2006-09-16 16:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy make the split permanent
2006-09-16 15:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i'm sorry but its not meant to be.....sounds like he just wanted an excuse to go mess around....leave his *** in the dirt u deserve much much better.
2006-09-16 15:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋